Is my sisters problem normal

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Sooooo... My sister who is 14 had sex at a young age. She's not prego or anything she just had sex with her boyfriend and they broke up a few weeks ago. She is very ashamed and I have like ... No type of idea how to help her other than just scolding her :( she tells me she loved him and she was ready, blah, blah, blah which I do understand but at her age... Idk what to do. She says she feels ashamed and thinks that no man will love her anymore cause she is not "clean". She feels suicidal and I have already tried to help but I'm more mad then sincere but yet I can understand both parts?.. Please help me make her feel better. She is in all regrets and the least I want to do is make her feel better. I know other girls out there have had sex at a younger age but her.. She takes this seriously which I also understand as well. We are religious too ...

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  • MrIncredible
    7 years ago

    Obviously she feels terrible about it all, but you shouldn't scold her. Hug her, and tell her no matter what ever happens, she is still your sister, she is still (her name), and nothing will ever change that.

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  • Ratmanwakes
    6 years ago

    She's a kid. Why sweat it? All part of growing up.

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