Is my relationship normal

29% Normal
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Hi my story is basically about my boyfriend and I we have great relationship all time. Apart from when he has too much drink and i end up saying something usually pisses him off we end up fighting. We are in relationship with 2 years now live together with a year and half. we really do get on well apart from drunken fights time from time. he has tried given up drink and cutting down. But this isint working as some how ends up back same story again. he knows that his behaviour is unaccetable and wants do something about it. Should I deal with it like I have been all along if I him love that much.I hope he will eventually grow out of it because I could see myself with him for rest of my life. Is this normal in most relationships.

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29% Normal
Based on 65 votes (19 yes)
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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    Obviously his behavior is acceptable. You have accepted it.

    If it weren't for you, he wouldn't feel so safe to keep drinking. You keep the house warm for him, you clean up his vomit, you even let him beat you up so he won't hurt his fists on the walls. What a precious little darling you are.

    Do both of yourselves a favor, and get out before he hits bottom.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      run before try is soooo weak. Its not even help. If you love someone as much as she says you shouldnt just leave. you should do that when theres no choice left.
      damn relationship nazis

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  • Sabaky
    13 years ago

    Yesh but its messed up o o

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  • CupcakeLovesPoptarts
    14 years ago

    Please Get Out While You Can, Im 17 And Have Just Had The Same Thing. Cept That Because The Drink Was effecting him over all he started ripping necklaces off of my neck and breaking my things, then the say we broke up he held me up by my throat, he admitted what he was doing and said it was for the best

    We were engaged and apart from the few occasions

    we were in love

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    cupcake

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  • mieoux
    14 years ago

    No, it's not normal. Jim_Pfoss describes it perfectly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    No - not normal. He abuses himself and you. Get out.

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  • luffymaxxie
    15 years ago

    There's other people in the world. Find one. =]

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Been there before my ex used to get drunk and accuse me of all types of things and she was verbally I recently broke up with her and it wasnt easy but i realized she is never gonna change she is to set in her ways.The only thing i can suggest is nothing its your choi ce not easy to break away when its so normal being together and the pressure of trying to find some one new is hard.Its all up to you,Your choice

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  • icecreaminbed
    15 years ago

    yeah its normal for people to get worked up drunk...as long as you love him its something you have to accept or help...but if it gets violent thats when you should really end it

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  • illusionsofmankind
    15 years ago

    Yes, a common problem in houses across the country.
    If you partner wants to stop drinking but finds he cant, maybe you should try AA if he really wants to stop they can help.

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  • Angelmom
    15 years ago

    when you were a little girl did you daydream about I want to grow up and marry a drunk and that is what he is and NO it will not get better so if you think that is all you can get and are worth then by all means stay with him, but if you have some class and brains you would leave him ASASP and find someone that is worhty of you.

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