Is my neighbours behaviour normal

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A new neighbour moved in down the street. While they seemed friendly enough at first now they’re making my life hell constantly asking me questions wanting to know all my business in my face won’t leave me alone it’s weird because they’d lived there all of 2 days when they started inviting the street on holiday with them they get involved in everyone’s business down the street & just refuse to stop harassing people is this stalking behaviour normal

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14% Normal
Based on 21 votes (3 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Yuck! Yeah, that person probably has more issues than National Geographic.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I just don’t understand & cannot understand why they’re doing it. It’s not just me that they’re hounding they’ll hound anyone who’ll give them the time of day. I’m now stood at my bedroom window looking out waiting for them to go out so I can go about my daily business without the hassle of them interrogating me. These people are making my mental health bad I feel like a prisoner in my own home🥺🥺I really need to stand up to them but just cannot be doing with the hassle. Thank you for your comment RoseIsabella 😊😊

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      • RoseIsabella
        3 years ago

        You are most welcome!

        I remember I had a next door neighbor who I didn't particularly like, and I was out working on my old car, I used to have a 2001 Buick Regal with a sunroof, and then I suddenly hear the neighbor's garage door go up, and I immediately went back in the house to wait for her to leave. I practically ran into my garage, pushed the garage door button on the wall, and then went in the house.

        I probably don't strike most people as so introverted that I would run in my house, but I did it, because I didn't like my neighbor. I guess you need to get really good at telling the neighbor you're busy, or you can say, "oops, I left something on the stove".

        That neighbor person is probably really lonely, and desperate for interaction, but that's not an excuse to harass everyone they come in contact with. My crazy ex-boyfriend used to talk peoples ears off. He's tall, and handsome, but he's crazy, and always wants to talk about conspiracy theories. People were polite to him, but I could tell that oftentimes they wanted to get away. He got really offended when we came back from the store, and he wanted to hang out, and talk to the neighbor guy who was having a beer on his porch, and the neighbor said he had to go inside. Then about a month later he has a dream at night that I slept with the neighbor guy, and when he wakes up he actually gets mad at me for something I didn't do, but he dreamed I did. He was crazy!

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        • raisinbran
          3 years ago

          Your reaction to your neighbor is funny... some people are completely oblivious.

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  • darefu
    3 years ago

    Not enough info, is it a couple? Are you m or f. You can make things work for you. Pick one and flirt rub your cock or dress a little loose make an obvious play, and they most likely will stop coming around or you may make a FwB. If you play the aggressive part they'll probably back off. They want to be the neighborhood alpha.

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  • lolasprat
    3 years ago

    Maybe they don't understand the essence of privacy. I have neighbors like that too. Give them the same answer everyday like 'I had gone to do some personal stuff that you need not to know'.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I don’t think they do to be honest. I’m at my wits end with these people. If they’re not hounding me they’ll hound the old guy across the road. They think they own the street & have to be in EVERYONES business. It’s as if these people are my parents & I’m constantly having to explain myself to them. It is getting beyond a joke. Thank you for your reply I really appreciate your input 😊😊

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    It does not sound normal if they are inconsiderate assholes.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Very inconsiderate 😢they’re making my life hell 😞just will not leave me alone I cannot get out my car without them running out their house to bother me constantly asking me questions about where I have been who I’ve been with I’m actually considering a move because it’s that bad 😞thank you so much for your comment 😊I really appreciate it thank you 😊

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      • RoseIsabella
        3 years ago

        What do you have in your garage? If your garage isn't too cluttered maybe you can just park your car in the garage which would be awesome if you have an attached garage. Apartment, condominium, or even townhouse living can be Hell when it comes to dealing with people who want to be a little too friendly, because there are too many opportunities to run into them.

        Sometimes a pair of sunglasses, and really obvious headphones can help the situation, but that sort of thing tends to work better if you're jogging.

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  • megadriver
    3 years ago

    Just ignore 'em dude. Or tell them to stop bothering you, tell 'em you got stuff to do (Preferably in a colder, more dominant tone).

    If they are that much of a nuisance, contact the police. You are free to do as you please on your own property (as long as it's legal and decent) and are entitled to privacy.

    Best to just tell them to mind their own business. Or to borrow a quote from BTTF - Make like a tree and leave!

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  • raisinbran
    3 years ago

    That would never happen in my neighborhood. Everyone is at war over parking spaces.

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  • lolasprat
    3 years ago

    Are they all adults?

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