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I'm 19 years old and I would have sex all day if I could. I usually play with myself at least twice a day and when I see my boyfriend we usually fool around 2-3 times or more. I feel like maybe I think about sex too much and I don't want to scare my partner away. (my libido is higher than his even though his is quite high too)
I'd say it's on the high side but not excessively so. However, I would warn you that if you are female, women getting into their thirties often have a spike where their libido multiplies. You may want to warn your boyfriend. :)
Although you know I wonder if this will change with this generation.
The libido spike is partly from hormones - the swan song of menopause for example - but it's also from the mentality changes.
In our time women were taught to be discrete about sex, to hold back... so women often didn't really start being open and daring about sex until their late 30s.
but these days many women are open and daring - almost too daring at times - about sexual activity. So when they hit their 30s and 40s they may not go through that phase.
Well, I've learnt something there. The swan song of menopause. It makes complete biological sense but it had never crossed my mind.
Interesting point about sexuality too and I can back that up with a friend who got to the age of 28 without ever having an orgasm (despite being married at 18). After she divorced, she finally felt like she deserved it and slowly started experimenting.
Sounds like my ex. As long as your man's libido is similar then you have nothing to worry about. Otherwise you might have to compromise a little bit :)
I wish I could have sex all day.
I'm a guy, but I'm multi-orgasmic. I can maintain an erection indefinitely.
I think that the longest a girl has been able to have sex with me before getting sore is four and a half hours. And I remember still wanting more.
For me, it's a problem because I become frustrated. But if you are happy in your relationship, then I think everything is ok. The key is context.
Two people who never want sex can be very happy together, the same as two people with very high libidos. It's just when people are mismatched that problems start. The same as when two people cannot bear each other's choice of movie.
If you know another girl like you, please put her in touch with me. We might have something in common.