Is my husband being an asshole ?

My husband is asking for anal and i'm refusing cause it hurts so to stop him from asking i told him " let me insert a banana (in a condom )inside u nd if u like it u can do it to me .. He said no , i asked why he said cuz female anus is naturally prepared for anal unlike male anus .
So is there any difference between male and female anus or he s just lying to get it ?

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    He's talking shit, there's no difference between the male and female anus. Plus what you proposed was perfectly fair.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    There's no difference, he's lying.

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  • Boojum

    I bet your husband is also one of those guys who wants to ejaculate in your mouth, and then refuses to kiss you because - YEUCH! Semen! Gay! Disgusting!

    I think your approach is absolutely fair and reasonable. If a woman wants a guy to perform oral sex on her, she should be willing to do that same for him. If a guy wants to fuck a woman in the ass, he should be willing to take something the size of his own penis up his ass at least once, so he can have some idea of what it feels like.

    The anus has evolved for one function: the passage of solid waste. The female anus is no more designed by evolution to accept a penis than the male anus is, but they're both equally capable of it. If your husband is really stupid enough to believe guys' buttholes can't deal with something the diameter of a penis, then I guess he's never thought for a minute about what gay guys do with each other.

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    • Emokate

      Or looked in the toilet after taking a dump.

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  • MisterPapaya

    As far as I'm concerned there's no difference in either genders' ability to take it in the butt... that being said if anal hurts that means you're doing it wrong. When done right it can be more pleasurable to women than vaginal sex.

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    • I absolutely LOVE it! The more the better!

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  • Nickvey

    if any thing the male gets his prostate massaged during anal. ever meet a gay man that has never had anal in his life

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  • Bonelessbananas69

    Your husband is being a jerk. Honestly, a man is going to get more sexual pleasure from anal than a womsn. They have a prostate, we dont.

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  • lonewolf1253

    If you actually do this, which I doubt he'll agree to, Use a penis sized cucumber. Life is give and take. Lets see if he can take it as well as give it.

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  • TerriAngel

    Yup.
    He's an ass.
    Nope, no difference.
    The fruit in condom is a good habit.
    You can get a yeast infection from fruits and vegetables.
    Google it.

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  • insanebotv21

    Other way around and no, banana is not the same circumference, shape, fit or form, nor is it solid enough.

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  • TheGypsyTaylor

    A banana is not rigid enough and would likely be crushed by any attempt to try and push it in before any part of it entered. Also why would you put a condom on it, does the banana have an STD?

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    • At least it would be crushed inside a condom

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  • Checkmate_King

    Start with a finger in a lubed condom with lots more lube applied.Used circular motions as well as in and out. He may get to like it in a hurry if you're doing this while you are sucking him off.

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  • MisterPapaya

    I'll probably be pounced on because I'm a man but I'm trying to be as un-biased as I can here so bare with me. A man wanting to stick his penis up a girls butt isn't with the intention of hurting her, so to turn around and demand that something be shoved up his butt for the sake of causing him pain is missing the point of sex entirely.

    His penis feels good inside of your ass. Your banana has absolutely no sensation when inside his ass. How is that equal?

    He wants to give you pleasure too. Anal sex isn't just a one-sided act, and it seems that a lot of women take offense to even being asked if they'd be willing to try it when the truth is when done right can be BETTER than vaginal intercourse.

    Best advice I can offer if you want to keep things even and equal is get yourself some anal beads and both of you give them a try. If you both agree that it's uncomfortable then never mention it again. If you come to like how it feels maybe graduate to the real thing knowing it's not that bad and he at least was willing to try it too.

    Anal beads, butt plugs and many other toys and lubricants exist in the most profitable industry in the world. I'd like to think they know what they are doing...

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