Is my girlfriend crazy or is it me

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Hello - Im really in love with this woman, we have lived together for over 16 months and dated a couple of months prior. When we met - both of us were out and about and seeing several people. We hit it off the first date,and I got scared that I really liked this girl, meanhwhile, I was in a relationship with another girl who had been through trama with old boyfriend and was phsyco and suicidal. She had ask me to go to FLA to meet her daughter - I had agreed, but for the last week I had been seeing my current girlfriend. So after one week or so of seeing my current girl I went to her and said, baby, i really like you but im in a relationship with a phsco and im afraid if i dont go to fla she will go crazy - Im gonna go and when I get back im gonna end it with her so we can be together - Since we had both openly discussed our "others" I felt this openness was the best way - at any rate, when I came back we began to date steady - and have been together ever since, it took a couple of months for both of our phones to stop ringing and texting from the ones we left behind but we got through it - or so i thought - although we have been together for 16 months now and I havent cheated on her or received a text from any woman in as many months, she resents the fact that I went to Florida that day - and she hates me for it, every week, something triggers this memory - I hate it because I thought that honesty was the best policy at the time and now it seems to be tearing us apart - What can I do? Is this normal ?

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    First of all, it sounds like you were emotionally blackmailed by the initial woman. I'll guarantee your present partner knows that and may not realise that you don't know it. It may look to her as if you made a choice which went against her. It may seem like you love(d) someone more than her.

    You have made absolutely the right choice in remaining honest. If she can be honest with you about her feelings and neither of you make any assumptions about what you think the other knows or doesn't know, then I guess talking it out may lay the matter to rest for good.

    Good luck. I hope it works out for you.

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  • DanB
    13 years ago

    I say you talk it out. Let her vent absolutely everything out and make sure she's done. Theres alot of anger if she's bringing it up all the time.

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    • nanimeow
      13 years ago

      I agree.

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    so yourif asking if shes crazy who are you talking about? this new woman or the old one?

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    11 years ago

    do yo believe it's wrong to strike a person? maybe even a woman? i support equality.

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  • HuckleberryHound
    13 years ago

    This is not a hard question... I mean come on were not making the shuttle right at the moon... Run Forest Run..... its not going to get any better

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  • Mikael
    13 years ago

    ddue u need to make up ur mind of who u want to be with u cant live in to worlds

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  • mluker
    13 years ago

    Who wants to read all that?

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    • coolio75650932
      11 years ago

      you :3

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  • Hard_Candy
    13 years ago

    You need to enter her dreams and plant the thought that "I never went to FLA with that other woman", that way when she wakes up she'll forget you ever went. Problem solved.

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