Is my girlfriend bi?

my girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a few months now. A couple times during sex she would talk dirty and say things like, "Don't you wish you had two of these" or "do you want two girls to suck your c**k". It was a turn on, but got me thinking about her sexuality. She's never had a threesome and says she is definitely not bi or attracted to girls at all. I questioned her about it after and asked if she was really down to have a threesome. She says she doesn't know, but if it made me feel good and pleasured, she would. She says she would lick her and play with her for my pleasure, but on the other hand she says she finds it disgusting and find vagina gross, so she says. I don't know if I believe her about not being bi. Do you think my gf is bi? or curious to try it with a girl? Is it bad that it makes me angry she would ask to please someone else or ask for someone else to please me?

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Comments ( 15 )
  • CoraCook

    That's bedroom talk, fantasies! They don't have to necessarily come true!

    I had a boyfriend who got off on the IDEA of me sucking on a bigger cock than his while I fucked him.

    People are weird.

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    • kelili

      This ^

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      • Diver2

        Do you still suck cock like there is no tomorrow?

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        • mccain

          yes i do. want your sucked? i swallow as well

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  • Girls are confusing.

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    • tinahn

      Guys are also confusing

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    • Potatowenders

      Dogs are more confusing

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    • derpyderp

      That is the truest thing I have ever seen on this site...

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  • shuggy-chan

    I find i less normal that you think your GF is lying to you

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  • Potatowenders

    If your girlfriends bi just try to support her and everything she probably thinks youll judge her or break up with her being bi wont change anything if shes naturally a loyal person she'll be loyal maybe shes just curious about threesomes

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  • Tempest-au

    It sounds like your girlfriend is bi-curious. From my experience, most women are - some are more open to actually trying it than others.

    The whole "I'd do it to make you happy" line could be true, or it could be her "escape clause" if she tried it and hated the experience (you know, where she can blame everything on you, including her uncomfortable feelings). It may not be fair, or nice, but it happens.

    Be aware that you are in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation here.

    If you decide to do it and your GF likes it, she may want to do it a lot more - and open relationships have pitfalls (and pleasures) that are too many to discuss here!

    If you decide to do it and she doesn't like it, she may blame you, or just straight up leave you.

    If you don't do it, she may decide you don't understand her needs etc, and leave you to find someone more willing to support her curiosity.

    And of course if you don't do it she may appreciate you not pushing her into doing something she really didn't want to do.

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  • richmanjoe

    She wants a girl to do her, but she is not sure of doing another girl (yet). Go find another bi girlfriend, and enjoy.

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  • rod4r796

    Women separate their fantasies from real life. So it might turn her on to talk about another girl, and to see you turned on by it, but she might not actually want to do it in real life.

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  • deepthought33

    She may just like to dirty talk and fantasize with you. Be wary of getting into a situation where she is ONLY doing something to please you and she takes no enjoyment from it.

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  • 6377annjoe

    She really doesn't know but she is bi, in fact I found every few women who will not try it, many times I get them kissing and BANG it developes into more onetime my wife and I had a good friend co-worker over to our home she and my wife got drinking as I bartended for them as they got drunker I suggested they should kiss reaching over to my wife Mary (her name) french kissed her and was feeling her tit my wife didn't stop her, I soon had them undressed as we cross necked and felt each other up, when we went to the bedroom I was the third one out as Mary went into a 69 with my wife........ I jackoff and did Mary's backside...........it developed after that into a 6 month affair until she moved to the west coast but my wife went twice to see her for 2 weeks at a time and she came here 3 times...Mary pass away about 10 years ago and when I bring her up to my wife she says, "I don't want to talk about it!"

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