Is my ex's behavior normal?

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Well basically, before we broke up he got a new girlfriend a day before he broke up with me. She has no idea that I exist because he kept me a secret from everybody. He ignored me for about a week before we broke up and when we DID talk he always talked about her saying that she was prettier than me and such, then he followed that up saying that she doesn't exist and that he was joking (which turned out to be false, and yes we were still dating when this happend). I eventually found out that she was real and tried confronting him about it and he kept denying it. Also, he would blame me for his antics- like when he punched his laptop, broke his headset in half, etc. even though I obviously didn't do it because it was a long distance relationship. There was a time when I told him I thought I was depressed and all he did was say "You're dramatic, I don't care." I was just wondering if his behavior was normal?

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19% Normal
Based on 31 votes (6 yes)
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  • Tenderlovin
    9 years ago

    At least he wasn't still with you while he was dating her, there is a silver lining! He sounds really immature anyways, keeping your relationship a secret, starting a relationship when he's already in one, punching his laptop and blaming it on you? Red flags, he's not good enough for you?

    Clearly he's a dick, just get rid of him for good, the other girl is a dumbass if she stays with him, but let her have your sloppy seconds. Rebounds don't last, just consider yourself lucky to be out of that relationship! Have fun and enjoy being single, trust me you'll forget him in no time:)

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Long distance relationship, huh? Let me guess, you met him online?

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  • perfectxsilence
    9 years ago

    I'm sorry but this guy seemed like an obvious jerk from the get-go. Why even bother to pursue it/ask him? He is someone who doesn't deserve you and you should be incredibly happy that you got away from that poor excuse for a human being. He'll end up with someone who is either just like him or has to escape and he ends up alone.

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  • A_s14
    9 years ago

    Let him be with her & let her deal with all of that bs and he's behavior , it's his loss not yours .. Let him go

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    ...What do you want us to do about you picking assholes? You made your choice, what do you want us to do about it?

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  • ChaoticBunny
    9 years ago

    Sounds like an immature jerk to me. I wouldn't waste my time and energy on a guy like him.

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  • mscurriouus
    9 years ago

    There isn't necessarily anything wrong with meeting someone online, but did you two ever meet? How long were you together? And lastly, how long distance was it? I don't like giving my input when there's so little to go on.

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