Is my ex really chinese food?

So I just came to a realization that kind of helped me relieve some stress over getting over my ex. You know when they tell you he/she is what you want but is not good for you? Well yeah people have been telling me this but I've been dismissing it because why would something I want and like so much be bad for me? It makes me happy so?? But I was talking to my mom over the phone about my dad's bad eating habits while she went to go get him chinese food. I was like mom why are you feeding his poor eating habits, you know this won't be good for him. She's like I know but he likes it. I'm like well just cause he likes it doesn't mean its good for him. After a few hrs later, I started getting ready for whats about to be the most awkward, intense, sad, depressing, unhealthy confrontation ever with him. I'm going to go and try to end it on good terms for my own peace because the way we left it off was not ideal especially for something that meant so much for me. As I was doing my hair, I was thinking about how everyone's telling me he's no good for you just cause you like him and want him. I'm always like idc he makes me happy. Then I remembered what my mom and I were talking about my dad and his love for chinese food. I was like WOW for something so small, I'm in the same situation. My ex is my chinese food. I want him, I love him, he makes me happy, I enjoy him but he is no good for me. He makes me feel like crap most of the time as if I'm not good enough for him. Yet, I still had hope for us to work. No matter what anyone was telling me, I was being stubborn and kept crawling back to him.

Now that its ending, I have to move on but I didn't know how especially being stubborn with my feelings for him. Just with my own analyzing and head, I came up with a solution that is probably going to help me tons on getting over him. It might not seem like a big deal, but its the same thing. Just like how my dad loves chinese food and enjoys it, why take it away from him? Well, cause its bad for you dad in the long run, no bueno just like my ex. Unless they make chinese food healthier somehow, I won't be worrying too much about making it work with him anymore. Just wanted to share this cause one it was kool how I just put the pieces together and two I think we all have had trouble getting over someone you were so in love with asking yourself like how the hell can I make this work. But you just got to realize this that he/she is not good for you no matter how much you like them. So I hope this helps out some people. BTW I have no idea what to name this post so disregard it.