Is my ex friend full of shit?

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We were very close and had a rocky friendship. I went to see her a couple times and she lives 6 hrs away. I reconected with her after some what a long time of not really being friends. When i went to stay with her, she said many times how luky she is to have me back in her life and that she loves me heaps. We had a good long talk about things and we exchanged our feelings to each other. One time she txt saying shes comin up to go to her cousins bday and that she can drop off somethin I left at hers but cant stay long az she haz heaps people to visit. I was hurt at how I felt un important so a while later i politely ended it via txt but didnt say why, she just txt ok. About 5 months later I txt since I mised her and still love her and she seemed anoyed at how i stil kept in contact with her mom and brother. She also said "im runing out of time for people who only want to know me when it suits them, it was lovely knowing u, and i WILL cherish the moments we had together". Am I missing something? is it normal that waz her explanation to ending it, it seemed that she waz the one that only wanted to see me when it suited her so her explanation realy makes non sense!?? Please help

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Arm0se

9 years ago

Wow. She didn't didn't stay long because she had stuff to do and you left her? Your lucky she even came over at all you selfish asshole. Maybe you are important to her, but she's her own person, and her world does not revolve around you. You are the one at fault here.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  What do u mean I left her? Also how am I selfish?? I fuking loved her, why else do u think it hurt how she didnt even wana stay long . I always made her priority , why do u think i botherd to travel 6 bloomin hours to go see her? I feel she only wants to c me when it suits her, there have been many times in the past where she said she was coming over and then she would change her mind.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    9 years ago
    
    Isnt that what u do when u love someone, u make them priority ?
    
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    - Arm0se
      
      9 years ago
      
      Ya, but it doesn't mean you become their entire life. She still had friends and family she's known long before she met you. What kind of person would she be if she just abandoned them? You may be the most important, but your not all that's important.
      
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    - wafflesundays
      
      9 years ago
      
      jeezo your acting like the girl is married to you or something you need to not be so possesive let her make own chioces clearly you aint good for each other
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        Not possesive, I just expect someone to act accordingly to what they say. If a person claims to love me and have missed me (as in this case) and basically say im important then youd think I would be a priority. We had an amazing bond and god help us if we were married lol
        
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Cuntsiclestick

9 years ago

"One time she txt saying shes comin up to go to her cousins bday and that she can drop off somethin I left at hers but cant stay long az she haz heaps people to visit. I was hurt at how I felt un important so a while later i politely ended it via txt but didnt say why, she just txt ok"

Are there any other instances of her making you feel bad? Because just by only mentioning this one, you're making yourself look bad right now. I'm not insulting you, I'm just trying to help.

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chained_rage

9 years ago

You get friends for a reason and friends for a season.

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Terence_the_viking

9 years ago

You're the one that is full of shit.

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Darkoil

9 years ago

You are absolutely pathetic.

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seekelp

9 years ago

I straight up don't understand

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Eagwol

9 years ago

its not her fault, its not your fault either. we all are who we are, each and every one of us. we are human, we will make mistakes until the day we die, and sometimes those mistakes can't be a wound that can simply heal. bridges burn, but can't always be repaired. you miss her, i get it. its the many other times she has let you down, saying shes coming over but didn't. and this was the final straw that broke the camels back. none of us knows the whole story, and I know if you did tell everything it be like writing a book. all i can suggest is learn from this. and don't let the bashing get to you, none of us knows the whole story, they only know what you put.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Spot on, you couldnt be more right! Thanks for this :)
  
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  - Eagwol
    
    9 years ago
    
    you're welcome :). may you always walk a path that opens new doors for you.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Thanks , that is vry inspirational :)
      
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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

tell her the truth about misunderstandings and hurt feelings , give her a chance to show you she cares , if she's has no regard for your feelings sorry but yr glad rid of her imo

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I cant! She doesnt reply and I dont think she wants to talk to me sadly. What does imo stand for?
  
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  - Ace09
    
    9 years ago
    
    In My Opinion?
    
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    - Ace09
      
      9 years ago
      
      Or
      In Memory Of
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      (I know it hurts, sry.) I'm Moving On.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        Ohh never heard that one
        
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        9 years ago
        
        Which one?
        
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