Is my boyfriend gay if he likes it up the butt & grl stuff ?

Had this boyfriend that im really in love with been together 6 mo . Everythings been great. Im very open and he's shared some secrets he's never told anyone before which included his fetish for anal sex on me and him , wearing girl clothes ect...
Do u think he might be gay and not being honest with himself ??? Is this normal?

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  • MadMar

    Anal on a guy is more common then people think. Men have a g spot there and receive a much greater climax. Ever heard of milking the prostate? I had an ex who was into it ( his suggestion) and after talking to many other men, I was truly surprise how many men were willing to try or have already and love it. Now the dressing up in women's clothes, I can't help you there.

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  • bubass23

    I too love a women to play with my behind. as said the prostate is the same as a women g spot. I truly enjoy toys and fingers in the during for play. one of the best orgasms a man will ever have. It does not make him gay if he enjoys. As far as the dressing not sure never had that desire. But since my wife has been playing with me from behind she has been trying to convince me to try a real one so to speak. Do many women find this arousing?

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  • I think he's gay. The sticking a strapon up his butt and him liking it sounds pretty gay, although it isn't entirely unheard of but him liking "girly" things throws it over the edge. He's gay for sure.

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  • Maid_in_Pink

    Speaking as a person who likes both, for many reasons I would say the anal is relatively normal, and the womens clothing a little less so, but neither mean he's gay. I love getting all dressed up and lookin like a hooker then having my Significant Other tie me up and have some fun, anal sometimes oral others, always fun.

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  • jensapa

    A lot of guys like it up the butt. An is it women's underwear he likes? My ex used to get off on wearing an wankin with womens underwear.

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  • 8Serene8

    Doesn't mean he is gay. As long as he doesn't want another man then it's normal.

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