Is my boyfriend gay because he watches gay porn?

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I discovered a few years ago that my boyfriend likes gay porn, and alot of it. I do not really care, cause you know whatever gets you off, but in the back of my mind I always think that he is gay and just won't admit it. I have asked him on several occasions if he is gay and he says he just likes the porn. Is it normal for me to keep thinking he is gay after he told me he isnt?

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  • thebiscuit
    14 years ago | pl

    hey im gay ... and i get off on straight porn... theres nothing wrong.... he might be bi or just curious.... you cant just think someone is gay for likeing gay porn

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  • Zeitmeister
    14 years ago

    I'm straight too and get off to gay porn. Something about how whiny the chicks are usually in straight porn annoys the shit out of me and therefor a huge turn off. So nah, he can be straight and watch gay porn.

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  • JohnnyWishbone
    12 years ago

    Men can get off on ANYTHING related to sex. That's why more men have kink-type sexual disorders than women; our sex drive is far more malleable. (Women have sex disorders, too, but they relate more to how they derive self-worth and seek affection than what gets them off, in general)

    That having been said, it may have more to do with a dom/sub thing than homo/hetero. He may want to be the passive partner in sex in a way that is only possible for women, at least in his mind, and he gets off on the idea of being penetrated, at least in the abstract.

    Maybe broach the idea of a strap on to him...

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  • scottman586
    13 years ago

    dconn, you're an idiot.

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  • LF4sDLX
    12 years ago

    Get a strapon & give him something to feel. Do he stops watching guys go at it & give it to him with a nice silicone cock

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    I hope he is gay. Looks good on you.

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  • cherrylicious_baby_cakes
    12 years ago

    Well, considering your his GIRLFRIEND, He's not gay. He may be Bi, but not gay. Maybe he finds it just entertaining. GL!

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  • gabi123
    12 years ago

    well im a gay young man and i watch a little straight porn too but its mostly cause of the dick,and rarely cause of the tits not a fan of pussy.he is probably bi though.

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  • lust
    12 years ago

    It's normal to think he is gay, or perhaps bi. I'm gay, but I have sex with girls too. Sexual orientation can be a hard thing to define

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  • zii
    13 years ago

    Someone I dated watched bi-porn. It pissed me off so fuck'n bad that I caught him doing this. But his explanation was that the normal porn is numb to his senses and he just needs something more taboo. ITs like a drug. You take too much and you have a tolerance so you need more or something more extreme. So I think he might be gay and he might not. whatever. But you are normal to think that in the back of your head. I know I think about it too.

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  • JR1284
    14 years ago

    wowwwwwwwww.... what does it make you if your intto beastyality?

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  • Alwayscometogethernomatterwhat
    15 years ago

    Yes, he's gay. If he has fantasies about having sex with other men and he gets off on them, he would probably have sex with a man if he ever has the chance to.

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  • pookypoo
    14 years ago

    He is definitely not straight. Straight men dont get off watching men suck and fuck each other

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  • dconn
    14 years ago

    WOW NO HE CANNOT. I am no moral authority as I will try most anything twice, but gay porn is up there with helpin your buddy jerkoff. Its a no no for straight men. Good test ask his buddies a general question about boys and gay porn. And for the record Bi = greedy. Normal folks gay or straight do not just turn that on and off

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    • lauren1235
      12 years ago

      helpin ur buddy jerk off-I know loads of straight blokes who have done this, and have girlfreinds and are def not gay. maybe everyones a little bit bi but some people just think it's wrong in the back of their minds, as is not always widely accepted - girl on girl, no probs, guy on guy, taboo. i bet all guys have a little dark bi side but just dont want to admit it.

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