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Well,for the past couple of weeks I've noticed that my boyfriend is flirting with my friend.He was calling her "BIG KAT" and she was following him around and laughing with him.So,I'm not sure what to do,break up with him or tell him how I feel?:(
This is what I would say:
Me: 'Why are you calling her,Big Kat?'
Him: "Its just a name... What's your problem??!
Me: 'I don't like the fact that you are spending time with another female who is not related to you. Why are you SUDDENLY keeping company with her?'
Him: "You are bananas! She is just a friend. Stop being so jealous!!"
Me: 'When you are in a relationship with me, you cease to have women friends that you spend a lot of extracurricular or non-work related time. If you prefer to continue seeing this woman, I will take it as an invitation to begin seeing other men. Simple as that. The ball is in your court.'
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I don't have TIME for assholes...
I always wonder how can I call someone friend and don't trust him at the same time, maybe it's just chick thing.
Tell him you are not okay with him getting close with her. He may not realize he is flirting but to us women when a guy gets that close with a chick it's considered flirting. Talk to him before you break it off.
How old are you? and your bf?. I don't see any reason that he's flirting around with that girl, and you don't really have to jump to the conclusion that you will break up with him because of that kind of situation, what if youve been into a big problem, how can you handle it? if you can't handle the small problem first. it's normal for him to still befriend with his opposite sex, i mean being in a relationship doesn't mean to not to have a friend with your opposite sex anymore your just creating a small world revolving only around in your bf. In fact it's shows that you have a low self confidence to yourself thats why you feel jealous to that girl. Your bf haven't done anything bad he doesn't even touches her right, and you don't have a right to say to him that don't ever talk with any girls because you are just his girlfriend i mean you are not even married so both of you have freedom to talk to someone and being with someone. You can't do anything if he wants to flirt around because maybe it's by his nature or he just can't be satisfied by you. Think logically guys flirt with another girl because they can't be satisfy by there partner anymore or he just doesn't love you at all. A guy who truly loves you will never break your heart. The problem is within you, try to boost your confidence more, love yourself first because you won't let any guy hurt you if you do love yourself, secondly be confident about yourself because guys were really attractive to a girl with confidence instead to a girl who always jealous and nagging her bf. if you have question just email me and im willingly to help you -)
If anything, your friend probably is the one with the crush, because she's the one following him around. You could always talk with her too. Both separately though.
You should probably just tell him how you feel. Why jump to conclusions over a little bit of laughter exchanged between the two? And not to sound rude, but "BIG KAT" almost sounds insulting. Out of all the names, why did he choose to call her that? Is she a big girl? You should ask him why he calls her that.
Also, I don't know how old you are, but I remember in High School, a lot of guy's that I knew of would hang around with their girlfriend's close friend's, b/c of the simple reason that they were close friends of their girlfriends. Sometimes they would innocently talk to their girlfriend's friend's about their girlfriend. Who knows? He might be talking to her about you.
Honestly, it could really mean anything. But don't right away think of the worst case scenario. Just talk with him about it. It's probably nothing too out of line.
Of course he was flirting, he wants to see how much he can get away with. Get just them together and watch the sparks fly!