Is my boyfriend being a jerk or am i overreacting?

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Ok so I'm guessing this isn't very common since it involves a celebrity. But recently, I went to a concert with my boyfriend and his friends. We were practically front row and "she" (the celebrity) asked if it was anyones birthday.. my boyfriend lied and said it was his and got a very explicit show with her singing and dancing "Birthday Sex" for him. It was very embarrasing for me as his girlfriend to stand there while that happened and he cheered her on. Of course I was very upset but I have let it go. However he constantly brings it up around both my friends and his just to laugh at how mad I got. Am I right for getting mad that he does this or should I be able to laugh about it just as he does?? He claims I just get mad too easily. The dance was specifically for him and it was very VERY sexual and I think I shud have gotten a little more respect from my boyfriend to atleast not encourage her on...I completely understand that it happened and he can't change that but is it really necessary for him to tell everyone, feel so proud about it, and laugh at it constantly? Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You're being a little bit overly sensitive and he's not being sensitive enough to you. You are both wrong.

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  • VoLoPoK
    13 years ago

    Kind of a dick move.

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  • Bling24
    13 years ago

    I don't think you're overreacting, but it's one of those things that you should let go. It's not worth fighting over because it's not a reoccurring problem, just a one time thing.

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  • honeybeee
    13 years ago

    What celebrityy and yah he is a jerk do the same thing to himm kz *hug*

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    You shouldn't have been at that concert anyways. The person who sings that song sucks.

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    Cheat on him.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    the dance wasnt specifically for him. he is just another person. can you imagine how many times she has done that at all of her other concerts? i guarantee there was absolutely nothing in it at all and i also guarantee that your boyfriend doesnt have a chance to get with the celebrity. it was just all in good fun. just be glad that he isnt one of those guys who goes to strip clubs every weekend to get a lap dance from the same girl that he has a crush on.

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  • mimi26499
    13 years ago

    Haha well a girl singer was singing it. It wasn't the original singer...thanks everyone for ur comments but I'm still stuck in the middle. I'm getting comments for both point of views.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Uh a female doesn't sing that song. ...

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  • t4ggs
    13 years ago

    Come on... Don't be so jealous. He is just joking, it seems it at a joke you are the one seeing it as if he cheated on you, and he didn't.

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