Is my boyfriend a real douchbag? or iin?

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I tell him to call me when he's on vacacation and he still hasn't. He always avoids me. He dosn't listen to anything I say. I once even told him I'm deppressed and told him why and he just gave me a blank stare, like he dosn't even care. I made plans to go on a picnic with him and he didn't even show up. Do you think he is a douchbag? He tells me he loves me but I don't know...

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  • joybird
    12 years ago | pl

    He's a douche bag - dump him.

    Actions speak louder than words!

    It's easy for him to say, "I love you" to keep you hanging around until someone better comes along for him, but obviously he doesn't love you anymore - or he wouldn't be treating you like this :o(

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have a hard time feeling sympathetic for you. If you have to ask if he's a douche, obviously he is... and yet, you continue to put up with it. It seems like you're looking for validation? Or to be a victim, then? If he does any of these things, it shouldn't take a forum full of people to tell you to break up with him. Either way, you won't... So, it's pointless telling you that he's a piece of crap boyfriend anyway.

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    he's just not that into you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It seems like he really doesn't care about you.. I'm sorry. He shouldn't be acting like that. Either that or he is cheating on you. Pretty awful, but find someone who treats you better, you don't deserve this neglect and disrespect.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Really? You deleted my comment because it didn't make you look like the victim? Pathetic.

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    • chewy
      12 years ago

      I gotta agree with you she is probably those teenage girls who complain about their problems and then say i love my boyfriend the next second, the answer is to either talk about it and if the guy isn't gonna change and it's one of those guys who says hs is gonna change but doesn't the best thing to do is to find someone else.

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      • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
        11 years ago

        Lol chewy it was me

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        • chewy
          11 years ago

          i didn't know that until now.

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          • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
            11 years ago

            Hahaa! xP

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Yes, really.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        All that does is prove my point, that you're the problem. I felt that some blame should be put on him, but by that action alone, I can tell that you can't handle people having an opinion that opposes yours, can't handle being seen as not the victim, etc. It is now easily noticed why your partner acts this way, and it's because of you.
        You expect him to pay attention to you, yet you delete other people's opinions.
        You're the one at fault here, not him, and it's easily shown.

        Pathetic, really.

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        • iEatZombies_
          12 years ago

          Well put. But I think this ^ may get deleted. lol

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            No doubt.

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        • IrishPotato
          11 years ago

          I disagree, really.
          Based on what she posted here, and not based on what you're assuming the situation is, I disagree.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago

          I've sat down and talked to him about this more then once and tell him how I feel about certian things he just dosen't listen to me.

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          • chewy
            12 years ago

            If he isn't gonna listen to you ever then you should just leave him, being persistent and pushy isn't gonna help you at all with guys who don't realize what they did or just don't wanna change. Nobody is forcing you to stay with him you are just one of those girls who tries so hard to change someone when they aren't going to change ever, instead of complaining about it like a young immature teenage girl which you probably are just leave him and find someone who gives an actual shit about you.

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      • Saycheese
        12 years ago

        I guess you truely don't like honesty from others. So much for having a happy life around others. Just saying... you need to be happy with yourself.

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  • colourmoon
    12 years ago

    it is easy to say 'i love you' but to actually act like this is the hard part, for them, that don't mean those words. actions speak louder than words. if he doesn't treat you right, break up. else you will suffer longer.

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  • BTStallion
    12 years ago

    Actually, "douchebag" is putting it lightly. That's not a healthy, loving relationship. I don't know you, but I'm pretty sure you could do better, so go do better! :)

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  • Corleone
    12 years ago

    I can't make this decision for you, but ask yourself if he is making your life any better. If he hurts you all the time, then you should really consider ending the relationship.

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  • dillin
    12 years ago

    None of these people can know because we only know half of the story.

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  • SmushZeus
    12 years ago

    like I have never experienced that crap in my life, pimp? strippers? RUN!!! You girls are never gunna get what you see in the movies if you stay with that shit. Better luck hun.

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  • SmushZeus
    12 years ago

    yeah sorry man he's an asshole, I have a boyfriend of 3 years and theres no way I would get away without calling him on vacation. And secondly he would be coming with me on vacation..

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Exactly! He's in Flordia for a Vacation now and I bet you those girls in Flordia probably look alot better then me lol

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      • robbieforgotpw
        10 years ago

        I hope you're not giving him the milk free still

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      • FredSumper23
        11 years ago

        Hard to say considering we don't know what you look like :P

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  • TutyFruity
    12 years ago

    Is my boyfriend a lost case? Or IIN?

    I found out he was a pimp, a felon, and I still pursued him even though he promised to give up his connections with strippers and things he used to do. But it's hard to forget that I found out he cheated on me and The girl called me to tell me she was with him. He said he was sorry but now I can't trust him. I want to move on and start to meet other people but I feel like I really care about him. I can't even desire being with someone else. I haven't had a real conversation with him for months because he went to jail for violating parole on a DUI. These months have been great for me to get my head straight but I still find must thinking about him all thebtime and secretly hoping we can start over when he gets released (like in July). But I'm so scared I'm making a bad decision staying involved with a person of his history. He was always good to me and helped me whenever he could but I can't trust his ways! He has bad traits and he has good traits but the bad ones stick in my mind!

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    • abtexas130
      12 years ago

      Girl you better run. When ever someone goes to jail they think about all the bad they have done then the promise they will be perfect. In about 2 weeks time he will be the same pimp its in his blood. Unless you can go through the heart break over and over or just become one of his gals then you should stay away from this guy. For fuck's sake he is in jail for a reason.....

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  • ready2rumble
    12 years ago

    He is either a real douchebag or he is playing games with you. I can tell that you are the type of girl that likes the chase.

    He already knows that and is playing games to get you to chase him

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  • missmood
    12 years ago

    Tell him to beat it. Go out with one of his mates.

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  • tbiM20
    12 years ago

    Easy to say he loves you....

    ....much more difficult to show it.

    If you feel ignored the majority of the time, chances are that YOU ARE BEING IGNORED.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    He doesn't care about you, but it doesn't really matter now.
    He broke up with you because of you not believing in God, which just prooves that he was in fact, a major douchebag.

    And OI :O
    You have a beautiful face, in fact, I love it C:
    Don't you dare say "Those girls in Florida are more beautiful then me" C:
    They're not.

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
      11 years ago

      I'm leaving IIN. For awhile. Look at my profile.

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      • IrishPotato
        11 years ago

        No. You're not.

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        • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
          11 years ago

          I'd love too stay.

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          • IrishPotato
            11 years ago

            And that's why you're staying.

            You're not leaving, end of.

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        • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
          11 years ago

          I'm sorry.

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