Is my bestie in love with me?

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I'm an 18 year old girl who has 2 bestfriends. One of them has been my bestfriend my whole life, but the other one is pretty "new" I guess. We became really close 2 years ago and she has been pretty obsessive. She always wants to hang out and tells me ALL the time that I'm perfect and the kindest person she knows. She says that she looves blondes and she actually has said that she wished that I was a guy because then she would go out with me. She says that I'm her ideal boyfriend but I'm a girl so idk. We were drunk alone together in my room and she literally spooned me and told me how pretty I am 10000 times. My other bestfriend has actually been concerned because she seems a little obsessed with me. She also get pretty jealous when I hang out with other people. She also always comment on how I always look hot and has a perfect body and I don't know. Something seems off. Nobody has ever given me soo many comments everytime I see them.

I don't know.. I love her so much as a friend, but I really hope that she doesnt look at me as more than just a friend.

What do you think? Am I overthinking?

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  • Mogli2525
    5 years ago

    I've been in your situation at a younger age so I didn't understand until she actually told me. Please make her understand that she can't do this anymore. You don't have to upfront ask her "are you in love with me?", but make It clear that you're uncomfortable. It might harm your friendship, yes, but it's not healthy for you and DEFINITELY not for her. If you really care about her, let her know she should do some thinking with herself because you are never going to be into her.
    Btw, for what it's worth, my friend and I have had some problems, but we're still friends and she's completely over me.

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  • mc-nede
    5 years ago

    Urgh, sounds horribly clingy to me.
    This may be hard, but if she is a best friend, tell her how you feel. If she doesnt get it and continues…then there's a problem with this g0rL

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