Is my best friend bisexual, curious, or what?

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ok, so i have this best friend. (female). We have been friends for several years and tell each other everything. I recently told a few friends about my bisexuality, (i am a girl too) and she was one of 3 people i told, and she was also the only girl i told, The only others i told were my 2 best guy friends, who are also bi. Anyway, She took it very well, and nothing has changed between us. She even told me that she thought that i was bi before i told her.... LOL.
well i have wondered if she was bi before i told her, because she was always all up on me, and my friend even noticed. However, she claims to be straight. She is always hugging me, rubbing my legs, and telling me the weirdest stuff. Like once when i was going to stay over at her house, she said we would have a "good time... if you know what i mean..." well night came, and we didnt do anything, just joked about it. Before i told her i am bi, we always joked about being gay for each other, but just in a goofy, joking way. what makes it worse is that i think that i like her... still not sure. I love her as a friend and would do anything for her, but am just confused. So what do you guys think?? please help!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well I'm a guy, so I'm by no means an expert on what's going through girls' minds all the time. But what I can tell you is that I had a personal friend of mine that also claimed to be bisexual. She never came on to me but she said she both liked guys and girls alike. I'm assuming you're about 14 or 15. If you ask me, there's probably a lot more girls out there your age, or maybe in your school that also think that they're into girls. But as your friend gets older and matures a little bit you might find that she's not as into girls as she said that she was. Or maybe she might stay bisexual who knows? Hope this helped.

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  • Ironbatman
    9 years ago

    I can't really give you advice since I on
    Y read this so I could jerk off :D

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  • vSlay3r
    12 years ago

    Im confused
    Are u saying that shes bi
    Or ur bi
    I was lost after the part about rubbing. :?

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  • astappedbyjesus
    12 years ago

    i think your friend is messing with you and practicing her cruel girl mind games lol sucks don't it?

    idk though this would mean she dosent really respect you if you don't think this is possible there goes my theory

    btw btw i think if girls didn't obsess over the correct female image so much they wouldn't get confused like this you check each other almost as much as guys check you out.

    i think as a 18yr old guy who cant get to sleep and stumbled across this website and thought it was a good idea.i might be able to help. see i am actually dating a bigirle and it seams like half the girls in my school are bi honestly so i haev a good feel for them. i wouldn't care if it didnt make the dating game harder for guys.
    But be honest most girls mess around with each other like this as practice and they don't feel as weird about it so they can be cool with thier bfs without being sluts. i think your friend is messing with you and practicing her evil girl mind games lol sucks don't it?

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Sounds just curious, maybe you can be the help she needs to end or blossum her curiousity. Of course if you wait for her to make the first move, it will most likely not happen, for she is way to reluctant!

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago

    ^ We have the same birthday :-) Good advice btw

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  • Blackwargreymon
    12 years ago

    Mhmm I think I would first ask what does it matter/why do you want to know if she's bi?

    I don't know if I'm misunderstanding, but it seems to me that the actual question is 'I might have feelings for my best friend'. (This combined with the same sex thing, but it depends on your social environment how much of an actual effect that has.)

    I would say: how serious are your feelings?And depending on the type of people you are and your relation I would just tell her. (I had a crush on my bf, I just told my bf and we could just be open and relaxed about it, but that's us.)

    As for the behaviour and same sex. I kissed my (same sex) friend, but we were just having fun!:D We're always acting gay(mostly me, directed at everyone tbh), but that does not mean I have any 'love'-feelings. So it really depends, does she act that way with others too?

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