Is my behavior about having a girlfriend normal?

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Hey, I'm 18 and turning after around a half year 19. Until that point, I was really never interested in girls IRL. I was watching some vids time by time, then every day about hot girls, no porn (find it disgusting) In the past even, I found girls disgusting, look what happened..Recently I thought, "Goddamn it, time to stop that and find some real girls". I also noticed a "change" for me: I was interested in Gaming on PC, especially Singleplayer games a lot more, while now I only enjoy gaming socially, per say with friends. I think there is more behind it:
Currently I am leading an group with around 100 active Members. I do not hetistate to talk to them or to punish them even if needed. In real life I am thinking always one billions times through it, especially in when to talk with a girl. That is a clear sign to me: You need to boost your OVERALL Confidence!

I had the feeling to rush it, but saying, Не спеши, никогда ( Do not hurry, ever) Is making me stay back, and wait when I find a new one.

I know friends, who are 16 and had couple of GFs, and also friend who are 20 but did not had any, and did never watch hot girls.

Your thoughts?

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Comments ( 11 )
  • SacredScout
    8 years ago

    You are still young. Follow your career and wait! Time will enlighten your path.
    I thought the similair way, how it ended up: Finding a Girlfriend with everything what you listed above. So, just wait! I'm sure there are girls fancying you somewhere in the world, unless you are ugly as fuck.

    Угадайте, где девушка из? Ваша страна;) Черт, российский девочки хорошо!

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    Well, having a girlfriend/boyfriend is, for the most part, a suboptimal use of one's time. Some people benefit from it, but at your age, finding a career and steering your life in a good direction is far more important than finding a mate.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Like anything, dating takes practice. I don't know though, you've left it until you're awfully old to begin. It may be too late for you.

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    • Steve2
      8 years ago

      The OP is only 18 years old. What the fuck are you talking about? No one should date before adulthood.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        rotflmao

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        • VladimirStalin
          8 years ago

          One of the rules here : doesn't use txt spk.
          As a mature person, following the rules should be easy, shouldn't it?

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        • Steve2
          8 years ago

          What's "rotflmao" about that?

          Honestly, are you twelve?

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            A true prude! I thought that that kind of puritanism had gone out 25 years ago. THAT's what has me rolling on the floor laughing my ass off.
            No one should date before adulthood? rotflmao. Unbelievable!

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            • Steve2
              8 years ago

              If you actually believe that, you are a very irresponsible parent. No one with any common sense would allow a child to date. There's a good reason why the age of consent is 18, so children can be protected from adult things until they are mature enough to handle it.

              Are you a Catholic priest, by any chance?

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    • VladimirStalin
      8 years ago

      @thegypsysailor
      Am I awefully old? "Awefully old"... I bet you started dating with 5 then? I agree with Steve2, please go and spread your religion somewhere else, whatever it is.

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