Is monogamy normal?

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A monogamous relationship seems to be what is expected, but is it actually normal? Let's find out. Are you:

Not currently in a relationship. 36
In a monogamous relationship. 36
In a "monogamous" relationship, but I cheat. 2
In an open or plural relationship. 8
Other? Please explain. 3
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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    What's the point of being in a relationship if it's open? I'd rather be single and free than get mixed up with that kinda mess.

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    • green_boogers
      9 years ago

      It's like having multiple fuck buddies.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        It's not for me. I don't want a relationship if it not monogamous. Honestly, I'm fine alone for now.

        :-)

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    It's normal only if BOTH people decide to have a monogamous relationship. Seeing someone else while agreeing to be in a monogamous relationship is cheating.

    It's also normal it they BOTH decide on an open relationship.

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  • Razaa
    9 years ago

    Are you a cheater? why would you even ask this?.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Nah. I just don't understand why monogamy is the default position.

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      • Freedom_
        9 years ago

        It's in the bible, SON! Next to the concubines...

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  • sahara1234
    9 years ago

    I think Hank Green explains how common or normal it is. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uH_rIT0juiM

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      He's cute!

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  • RainbowDischarge
    9 years ago

    My one coworker thinks monogamy is not natural.

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  • liveITup
    9 years ago

    I find it crazy that there are so many people in open/plural relationships.

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      So do I, so do I. I personally find those types to be way too douchey for my taste. Too much time and effort to waste on some shitty self absorbed person or persons for my taste. Swingers and polys give me the creeps.

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