Is it wrong to secretly involve someone in your fetish/fantasy

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I have a fetish for being stepped on or bruised. I'd prefer if it was by a chick but I still get off if a guy does it. I'm 20

My college dorm mate is the outdoorsy type and is always wearing these dirty heavy boots. As a joke one day he stepped on my hand when I was sitting on the floor and it really turned me on, I asked him to step on my forearm and he did, so I egged him on asking if that's all he's got until he was stomping his muddy boots up and down my arm. It was such a sexual thrill it took everything in me not to moan out, and luckily I was wearing jeans. I woke up with big bruises that got me so hard to stroke and push on.

I felt kinda dirty getting him involved in something I find sexual without him knowing it was sexual, but there's no harm done to him right? I wasn't being creepy or anything I don't think. I don't sexualize the dude I just use the bruises and harm he gives me to get off.

Always wrong 0
If it's not intruding (spying, stalking) it's alright 5
Always okay as long as it's harmless 5
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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Whatever, yes its wrong. Are you open to hearing that? In your post you sounded like you were justifying it. Don't ask questions if you don't want to hear the answer.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I wasn't trying to justify it, just wanted to give my thought process on it.

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  • realservitude
    6 years ago

    I do this sometimes. But my fetish is fairly benign and everyone benefits. I have a fetish for women's feet and shoes. I'm sure you know where this is going. But I would offer foot massage to my friends who are hot girls. Or I would offer to clean their muddy shoes.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    We all have our "things" and fetishes. I've had one for not only long nails, but, my hot older sister's very long, always polished and done, nails, for years, and, she indulges it all the time. We share the fetish, so it works. She'll do them colors I'll ask/tell her to, use them on my back, shoulders, arms, and body, digging in and scratching so she leaves "her mark" on me.

    She'd visit me in college, and wouldn't be happy unless I had lines (or, a few times..little bit of bleeding) on my arms, chest, or back when she left. Doesn't matter who you're indulging your thing or fetish with, as long as you're both good with it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      What does your story have to do with anything I'm talking about.

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      • Justmehere
        6 years ago

        Was simply commenting on involving someone else in your thing or fetish..

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      • ChiggerDaMan
        6 years ago

        It's about marking your sexual property to assert your ownership.

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  • galen
    6 years ago

    If you have a fetish for something most people wouldn't even recognize as sexual...

    I'm a guy, and I have a fetish for a woman holding me from behind with her hands kept pulled back into the soft of my stomach extremely tight, like she's squeezing me in two. My S/O knows about this, and she's just fine with holding me that way if that's what turns me on.

    But when I was younger I got a couple of females to do this to me and I'm pretty sure they never recognized how it was affecting me. In fact that's how it got started, one of them used to just do it to me. Right or wrong? Hmmmm...

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