Is it wrong to have a big age difference...?

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Hi,

I've been going to the boxe gym for a while now, until I noticed this really hot guy that was often there too at the same time than me.

Today I decided to make a move and team up with him. We really had fun together, and I cant wait to see him again.

Later on this night I decided to investigate a bit. This one detail I found out about him kind of turned me off: he is 6 years older than me. I'm 20 and he's 26. I'm a mature person, and people see me as if I was 25(maybe this is why I'm always hitting on older guys lol). The thing is that he seems to have much more experience than me. He traveled many times (yes, many times), and I didnt. He seems to be quite on track with his life now compared to where I am with mine...

I'm just asking myself if it's still worth flirting.

Do you think the difference between 20 and 26 is big?...

I dont know what to do but there is one thing I know, I feel sad about it because it seems I may not be on the same level than him.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    I don't think thats a big difference AT ALL. I was expecting this story to be about a 20 year difference or something. I definitely like men to be around 10-15 years older than I am. Women are more mature; I definitely appreciate the wisdom and maturity that accompanies an older guy =)

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  • thebuddah
    13 years ago

    If u think 6 years is a "turn off" then your not mature and don't sound like you could be 25. Lol

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  • Statsmashers
    8 years ago

    Women prefer men much older.
    Anna Nicole Smith was in her 20's and married a dude who was 90 years old.

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  • nibletrs
    13 years ago

    Its ok its only 6 yrs not 20 so i u both
    Like each other go for it

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Thats no big age gap i mean my mum anr dad are 23 years apart and look hoa gawjuss i am xx

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  • rawr123451
    13 years ago

    Once ur past the teen years
    6 year difference is nothing. It'd only be wierd If he was like 30. And it doesn't get rong till like 35.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    nah, i don't think that's too much of a difference. i'd say go for it.

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    It's only 6 years. Go for it.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    I know a 17 year old girl who goes out with a 42 year old male. I find that wrong IMO, however your situation is normal.

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  • individual95
    13 years ago

    this is not bad, there are 8 years between some people i know :]

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  • aaa83
    13 years ago

    What age difference you talking about.... It's only 6 yrs... I doubt you are mature

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    At that age.... There is no "age difference".

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