Is it wrong to feel bad for my brother?

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My older brother has a autistic daughter and he and his wife don't seem really happy.

What I mean is that even though she is a loving child and They love her with all their hearts she is has many problems.

She is prone to random out bursts that can last the whole day it can be due to many things and even if you do it she will still break down.

Point and case she has a computer and it has to get fixed(fucking Microsoft) but she dosent understand this and will have a full on break down and if it's brought back and dosent work she will get even sadder this is just a example.

My sister in law tells me it's very difficult and she dosent know what to do my brother dosent really bring it up so I don't know how he feels about it.

They have three other kids and as far as I understand they are really annoyed from what my oldest nephew told me he wished that his parents didn't have her.

This is sad because I don't know how to feel about it I am just a outsider looking in so I don't feel it's my place to make judgements but I feel really bad for them is it wrong?

It's very depressing because I love my niece and she is a joy to be around.

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  • lillyquinlan
    5 years ago

    Living example of why we need eugenics.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    I had an autistic brother who was the same, except he used to beat up my father. My father is old, so it's not like he could defend himself well. He'd also break his clothes, toys, and room. My family was poor, so my parents had a very hard time replacing all the stuff he broke. I resented my brother for being so loud, angry, and annoying while all I could do was fake being happy and bear it. When they put him in an assisted living care home, a great weight was lifted from all of us and we were finally able to relax. He's actually doing pretty well there and I'm glad he's happy. (He said he was tired of Brentwood and hated looking at this ghetto town. I recall as kids having to watch each other's backs a lot due to some of the shady ass people living here and their activities). I know he didn't ask to be born that way and none of it is his fault, but when you live with someone like that, a part of you is just chained down and dead inside. (Though A part of me thinks that things would've turned out differently if we would've been born into a different family or raised in a different area. Then again it could've just wound up the same. Idk.)y

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Put it out of its misery and feed it to me

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