Is it wrong to contact someone just coz you feel sorry for them?

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I have been doing this for the last few years where I want nothing to do with a person anymore but I assume that they probably feel bad that I havnt talked to them or seen them in a long time. This makes me go out of my way and contact them. One of my friendships went on for 1 year longer than it should have because I felt sorry for cutting off the girl so I contacted her again. I know people get better with time and move on but I dont want anyones self esteem to have a long term bruise because I lost interest in them or have other reasons to not want do anything with them anymore.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    If you don't want anything to do with them a clean break is the best way going back over again is going to make things harder for them.

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  • Fall_leaves
    7 years ago

    I think it all depends what your relationship was with the person. Consider this, they didn't have to give you their time in the first place, they chose to. Have some gratitude for the people in your life.

    And as I say that I realize I'm being a shitty friend.

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