Is it worth chasing someone that you may never have a chance with
Not really an is it normal type question but I wanna know
Kinda | 12 | |
Yeah | 13 | |
No | 23 |
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Not really an is it normal type question but I wanna know
Kinda | 12 | |
Yeah | 13 | |
No | 23 |
You'll only humiliate, degrade and disgrace yourself. So the answer depends on if you're a masochist or not. I wouldn't do it.
Have you got anything better to do? Key word here, as I see it is, "may".
If you actually asked and that person wasn't interested, then it's best to move on. Chasing someone will only annoy or scare that person.
Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. No one is perfect. Is this person seemingly unattainable to you because YOU say so, or because THEY do? It might all be in your head, but if that's the case, then you'll never deserve them because your confidence is too low. You'll put them on a pedestal and constantly wonder if you're worthy, which isn't healthy and could possibly lead to more traumatic results like cheating or manipulation down the road. If in the opposite case, if they treat you like you're not worthy, then they aren't worth chasing anyway. Why not be with someone attainable who can be your friend as well as your partner, who makes you feel important and interesting? Trust me, it's much more satisfying to date a 6 or 7 who adores you, than a 10 with whom you have nothing in common with and makes you feel unworthy.
As someone that has chased a person I couldn't have, it's not normal. It only leads to sadness.
I'm shocked at the number who have said "no". Are you all cowards of rejection? What would you have to lose, in comparison to what you have to gain?
Yes, if you think you have any chance at all, until you get a definite "not interested", in which case back off before you become a nuisance. Otherwise how would you know if you don't try?