Is it weird that my boyfriend calls his sister babe?

INCEST

Yes it is weird, all of what he said. It's stepping over into the category of a brother wanting to have sex with his sister. Even Joe Dirt found that idea too freaky to deal with.

Run

End the relationship.

Trust your intuition (gut feeling), and just walk away. Things like this happen, especially if the sister is a major hoe and testing out her skimpy outfits and sexual teasing on her brother.

I suggest you just tell him that it's not working out, and end it; don't even explain why because he's going to deny it, probably while looking at his sister's ass while she walks by.

This is definitely strange. You're not supposed to call your sister "babe" or have her dress to what you find sexy.

First, since you use the term "chavy" I assume you're British. In American culture, the use of "babe" is limited to those you are very close to, normally only someone of the opposite sex, often only those you have a sexual relationship with.

In the UK, it's not unknown for bus drivers, shop staff, and so on to call complete strangers "babe". It's a regional and class thing. Whether a guy calling his sister "babe" signifies anything really depends on how often he uses the word with other people, and how he says it.

It may be sexist of me, but I believe in female intuition.

Go with your feelings. If you have a gut-feeling that something is a bit "off" about their relationship, there probably is.

One caveat: you have to be sure that your background isn't distorting your perception. If, for example, you come from a family which is emotionally-distant, it's possible you could see perfectly normal sibling affection as a little weird. Or, if there was abuse in your childhood, you could be super-sensitive to even the hint of sexuality between siblings.

I think Justmehere makes a valid point about how your boyfriend's sexual preferences might have been strongly influenced by his sister. That doesn't necessarily mean that anything has happened between them, but who knows what is going on in the darkest recesses of your boyfriend's brain? If you feel that his sister is, in some sense, a competitor, then I think you should seriously consider whether you want to remain in the game. He should know his sister as well as he's likely to ever know anyone, and if he still thinks she's perfect, you're probably not going to be able to take that title from her.

So the question is, what are your hard limits? Are you willing to - in some sense anyway - share your boyfriend with his sister? Would your feelings for him change if you knew they had been sexually active in the past?

Ya that's completely weird. I dated someone years ago who was all up on his sister but she wasn't about him and it was so weird to think about incest but you see what you see unfortunately. I don't know if it's a weird "I want what I can't have" fetish or what, but if she's acting the same way there's gotta be some shit going on. Run and don't look back!

never called my sister babe

Guys are sometimes proud of their sisters because they are hot. Thats okay. But if they are kissing on the lips, something more is going on. You are going to be sharing his cock with her. Maybe make this a short term relationship to expand your sexual experience.

sounds like they are being inappropriate with each other.

Thanks to my grandfather, my mother's nickname was Babe. Everybody called he Babe, all of her life.

Sometimes guys have to call female friends their relatives so nobody thinks its weird if they hang out all the time

Ya it is normal .... Me too incest..

idk maybe he’s gay?

Trust your gut, honey.

They could just get along very well, and, he may have been coming into his own as she was doing things and dressing sexy, so, to him, she remains beautiful, sexy, and, in a way "where it all started", making her his ideal even if the names, lip kissing, and hands-on continues.

In my own case, I've always gotten along exceptionally well with my hot older sister, including lip kissing and being a bit hands-on. She does things I like, knows it, and plays it up at times. We have fun with it. Only had a few women I've dated either notice or ask, but mostly goes unnoticed. Surprised an old college friend one time when she stopped by my house to drop off event tickets, had done her long nails jet-red (our shared thing..her amazing nails), and made a point to show me by running them down my arms a few times. Before she left, at my front door, I laid a full, "real" kiss to her lips, with my friend maybe 6 feet from me. Older sister and I both knew he was watching, so again, had fun with it.

He did ask "Do you always..Kiss her like that?" to my answer of yes. His next statement, shaking his head, was "Lucky bastard". Guess it depends on who's seeing your bf and his sister do these things and how they react.

OK this is just my outsiders opinion with the minimal info provided here, given there are endless details and complexities to any relationship. But simply put what it is is I would be leas concerned about 'babe' siblings do say this sometimes while a bit odd. But him say she'd be his type stuck out to me. The lip kissing is also odd to me but something I know happens sometimes. But yeah I don't think you have anything to worry about. Not directly related per se but if you open an account with Charles Schwabb they refund all foreign ATM fees when you travel internationally.

Weird. Also, calling her babe being a "slip of the tongue" just makes it worse, because that might mean that he's thinking of her like that. Otherwise, why would that come out naturally?