Is it weird that i want to be pregnant?

Ever since I was in 8th grade, I wanted to be pregnant. I wanted to have the experience before anyone else. I'm not sure if it is because of the attention I would have recieved or if it's just my need of wanting to have control over something. I have always dreamed to be pregnant. I think I would make a great mother, but my parents wouldn't understand. If I got pregnant at a young age, the baby and I would have a better bond due to the small age difference.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • cannibus14

    i think its normal to want to be pregnant but not to like actually consider physically getting pregnant. but i don't think you should be on 16 and pregnant or maury or jerry springer because it really is ingrained in everyone's subconscious to get pregnant since the purpose of all life is to literally just reproduce. you're definitely normal and probably way more in touch with your subconscious than most people. but i wouldn't recommend going around telling people you want to get pregnant because everyone's going to take that the wrong way. keep it to yourself and let it be a fun secret dream of yours until its really time

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  • Maury show

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  • bdstreich

    It would definetly be weird, if you were a guy.

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  • kinkdaddy47

    I think its normal...a mans cum belongs inside....when unare hVing sex and the girls asks u to get her pregnant its so hot

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  • gako

    See you on Jerry springer

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  • InnerHatred

    D-O N-O-T H-A-V-E C-H-I-L-D-R-E-N
    They are disgusting.

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  • zEropoint

    It's perfectly normal, but that's not the issue. The issue isn't whether or not you want to be pregnant. The issue is whether or not you want to be someone's mom. That's a little different.

    The best person to approach about this is someone who's already been there. Now, I don't mean for you to go flying up to your mom and start a Maury style screaming match with her. I mean ask her what it's like. What was it like when you were a baby? What was it like being pregnant? Was she scared? What about her life had to change? What is it like being a mom now? What would she do different?

    Do the research. You might find that you really don't want to be anybody's mom right now, even if you want to get pregnant.

    And trust me, you're mistaken about the mother-child bond being strengthened by your young age. It doesn't work that way. It's not like getting a new baby sister or brother. You absolutely *have* to be a competent adult in order to have a bond with your baby.

    I didn't have my first kid until I was 28. You totally have time, and every day you're able to wait is one day of experience you gain on your child's behalf. That baby doesn't need you to be a baby yourself. That baby is going to need you to be a grown woman, and if you do the soul searching and find that it's not time yet, please do yourself and your baby the grace of waiting.

    You deserve to get the experience you're going to need to raise a child (it's *hard*), and your child deserves a mother with all the experience she can get.

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  • y007steph

    Not normal. It is somehow too obsessive. You have to be mature to be pregnant, not only physically abut also mentally and emotionally. Plus; you need a stable social position.

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  • xoxo29

    Not normal. I had mine at 29 and it's hard. Are you ready for morning sickness that lasts ALL day long for months, swollen feet, weight gain, painfull joints and on and on and on? Wait for as long as you can. Do you realize that you will have to take care of a baby when the pregnancy is over? It's not just about being pregnant. It's not like a crazy fad, in one day and out the next. This is FOREVER!!!

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  • happyB

    Not normal. Pregnancy is not fun, and either is being a young mother. I did not have my first kid til I was 26, and that is STILL too young.

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  • urmomwuzhere

    Theres a show about people like you it's called 16 and pregnant :)

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    • sarsharocker

      or underage and pregnant

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  • b454

    Its fun to think about how great its gonna be but reality is a bit different for most. Although I didn't think it was nearly as tough as people always say. I accidentaly got pregnant at 19, but now I have the most awesome daughter ever. Guess I was lucky and just did things right we're buddies but she knows I'm her mom first soooo.. It depends on who u are I guess

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  • alv1592

    don't get prego at a young age. you have to be old enough and mature enough. i have always wanted kids of my own, but i'm not getting prego until i'm married.

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  • HulaHoop

    its not just about pregnancy, you will have a child to bring up after that-you seemed to have forgotten this part!

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  • I'll get u pregnant

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    • sarsharocker

      lol

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  • Yea if you feel ready and know you can 100% support the child. Also if you are with a great boy then go for it!

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  • cittykat

    To want to get pregnant? Yes. To get pregnant at a young age? No. To obsess over being pregnant? No.

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