Is it weird that i've never planned this?

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I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm in college now. I've only just began thinking about this but all my friends (girls) seem to always talk about their dream wedding and they know exactly what they want and which dress and they seem to have an overall idea of it. I'm still young and I'm not even thinking of marriage now at all, but is it weird that I havent even thought about what its going to look like, what my dress will be like and where it gonna be. Just all this stuff, I just don't plan things like this in my head. Is this normal?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    "seem to always talk about their dream wedding "

    So you're concentrating on your education instead of marriage? Sounds like you're in college for the right reasons.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    Thank you for all your replies, appreciate it!

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    Thats completely normal.

    I never even thought about my wedding or marriage when I was little and not much still till this day even.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    What exactly are u trying to imply with ur comment? That people are required to go to college to think of marriage. Fun fact: people go to college for the education.

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    • myownopinions
      12 years ago

      No, I'm pretty sure Angel was implying the exact opposite...

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        *nods*

        I'm still not sure how the OP came to the wrong conclusion on that... unless she though I was being sarcastic?

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      I was implying that you were attending college for the right reasons - getting an education.

      It sounds like the other girls are only there to nab husbands. They use to call it "getting your MRS degree"

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        12 years ago

        Oh apologies I completely misunderstood your point, you've given me quite a bit to think about (in a positive way) thank you!

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
          12 years ago

          indeed. stick with your convictions and get your degree.

          =)

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  • flufffluff
    12 years ago

    do you realize your reply makes NO sense? Nowhere does she mention that SHE'S the one talking about "dream weddings" so obviously she IS there for the education but happened to come across people who have other priorities. I can't stand people like you who post completely pointless comments and don't even bother giving a useful answer. Grow up.

    @ Poster- It is completely normal but remember that everyone is different while some people will concentrate on marriage plans others concentration on work, their future, sports etc Depends on what they're interested in

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    "And what man is going to pay for it all". You missed that part out.

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    • Alison89
      12 years ago

      In my culture, the woman is responsible for most of the wedding expenses and the planning, too.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Yeah, what I said wasn't aimed at all women, just what I think these girls were thinking due to them probably still being teens.

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        • Alison89
          12 years ago

          Your post was actually funny, though. I know plenty of women who look at men as an early retirement plan.

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            You're probably the first on this whole site toadmit that some women actually do that. Thanks.

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