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I'm not a virgin and i'm straight. Sex is VERY NICE! But i'm very patient about getting to it in a relationship. Usually it's the girl's idea in my case. Should I be more aggressive in pursuing it?
I think it's sweet but to your girl it may come off as you not being interested in her sexually. Perhaps let her know that it just isn't as important to you as other things in the relationship. But yeah I think its normal. :)
"I'm a man and I have self control am I normal?"
Actually you're a cut above the rest. Do you know that you don't objectify women? Dude you're awesome and you understand that you're in the 21st century. In so many experiences I've learned that a man is willing to do a lot for sex and little for a relationship. But you're relaxed when it comes to sex.
I love you.
Sex is not fundamental to a relationship. Procreation, yeah sure. My girlfriend and I would still be so very much in love even if sex was not a part of our lives. I know this deep down and so does she.
Sex is overrated, and I'm very sure it's not essential.
It's normal. Sex is overrated. It's only worthwhile when you're doing it with someone you connect with.
mmmm its definitely not common! Maybe your just one of the very rare few that actually wants to have sex with a woman you love?. Not just for the sake of it, like all these other disease spreading nymphomaniacs!
Not very normal, but you're kind of lucky to not be as burdened by it. And no, if you were gay you would be just as horny, except about guys instead.
i think its really cool that sex isnt that important to you or whatever. ive never found a guy like that and pretty much that is exactly what almost everygirl wants is a guy who wont push her and wants more then just sex, i give u mad props and hope u never change.
I wish there were more people like you :p
I think the thing that puts me off relationships most is that the guy might just use me for sex and then leave, or cheat on me if I don't give in. (Not that I would give in to him, and if he kept trying I'd kick him out the door)
I think it is normal... My boyfriend is the same. We are together since 6 month now, I lost my virginity to him. When we only just started going out we spoke about it and he very clearly told me that sex is not important to him and that he has no hurry and that he is not going to do nothing i don't want to do... Now still I am the one that says weather we do it or not. I think you should not worry about what your girl thinks because I am sure that she knows that you love her and thats all that really matters at the end of the day no?.
Hey, just be yourself. If you can be that patient, I don't see a problem with it. My fucking dad thought I was a queer because I did not chase pussy all the time. Course, he knew I was getting all I needed from his wife, so I can't figure why he thought I could be queer. Weird! Yeah, it is a wonder he didn't just kill me or send me off to outer Mongolia or some place way far off. But he never did. Really he was the one who was always going off to other countries and states, which is probably what led to my mom getting in my pants. No, I know that doesn't normally happen, but it did in my case. I guess because it is so rare is why so many here at IIN seem to want to doubt my word. That and the fact it kinda grosses them out.
It might be that your connecting to your manly lovin or in other words turning faggot
I think it's great that you don't mind taking your time. If a guy doesn't take it really slow with me...I run. I say normal. Maybe not the norm these days though..well not in my experiences at least.
It's normal. And you asked quite a few questions so your vote percentages might reflect different things lol
It's very sweet(: you are not what other people say, I find that amazing! It's normal, it just means you will find someone great!!
everyones body is made up completely differently. some people crave sex more than others. It is totally normal to have a low sex drive and many others share the way you feel about sex. Or you are a fag