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I was babysitting the other day and the little boy kept jumping on me...usually I let him because he thinks it's hilarious and he weighs like nothing. The other day, however, he was sitting on my back and bouncing, and I kinda got turned on. I made him stop because it freaked me out! This can't be normal...can it?
i went to a massage therapist to treat pain in my spine, i'm a straight male btw, and the massage therapist was a man to whom i felt absolutely no attraction, but the technique of the massage caused some friction near my errr i'll just say it, the genital region, and i found myself in a very awkward situation where YOU KNOW WHAT started to respond YOU KNOW HOW...
what i'm saying is... the physical body responds to stimuli, if the boy tries to bounce on your back again, just push him off
obviously gently, i don't mean hurl him away like you were trying to break a world record for child throwing, just gently push him away and say the action hurts your back
Its normal for you to get aroused at very weird things but feelings and actions are two different things. As long as you keep those thoughts to yourself and not act upon them, you're okay.
Yea its fairly normal. Especialy if you've had a lack of sexual contact. Your not a pedophile... and even if you are just don't rape kids ;)
I was wondering where in your story you said if you were male or female? yet all the responses assumed you were male..... are you?
not normal at all, because if your around the child and little things like that keep happening or you think about it more and more then ya... pedo..
if that was my kid I wouldnt want you around them but I guess if it was like you couldnt see him so it wasnt the kid but a feeling of jumping on your back well then sorta maybe but i'm not confortable with kids and arousle in the same sentence at all. be careful about talking to a psychologist about it. I know from experience they can break the confidential thing if they think someone might get harmed especially a kid. Pay a hoe to jump on your back
it`s normal it`s giving off the feeling of sex next time have him jump on your vagina or around that area
well im not turned on enough to masterbait or rape the kid but i guess a little.
My niece(2 years old) does it too me, I don't feel horney when she does, but I have a fear of feeling horney when she does.
Odd double standard but it is only okay if you are a girl. If you are a guy, then it is wrong by todays standards and I would keep it to yourself. If you admitted that to the wrong person, they might just press some stupid sex crime law and you might have to seek counseling...according to them.
Honestly, believe it. I knew of a guy who has to report himself as a sex offender because he admitted to the wrong person that he gets an erection when his younger cousin comes over and bounces on him when he is laying down.
I'd say normal. Sexual arousal is not entirely dependent on actual interest in the stimulus. I've gotten wood from a kitchen counter before...no pun intended.
Yes, it's normal anytime there's any pressure on your genital area. But you were correct to stop it and move on to other things. Don't feel guilty; don't dwell on it. But just change activities -- play with blocks, go outside for a stroller walk, whatever.
its something about how people lust for you too. I think, if somehow, someone is attracted to you and they touch you, the electricity goes through and there is attraction. I was on the deck with my mom and her friend, and the neighboor's daughter (10yo) started sucking my finger while I wasn't looking, like you can imagine
Actually people, usually teens and young adults, are turned on easier. Slight touches, small gestures, or even feelings something on your back make your body react as though it's bieng...well you know...it's normal. yep.
I'd say stop babysitting & go see a pyscholist your both fkn sicko's! You better watch urselves before somone dicides to report you!!!
Having those sort of feelings around children is not right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!