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So, I am attracted to good looking guys and all, but sometimes I just want to do a fat/ugly guy. Trust me, it's not to boost my self esteem. It's just that...Well, sometimes thinking about it gets me really turned on. What the hell is wrong with me? O.o
Thank all that is holy for girls like you. If there weren't any, I'd never get anything.
Maybe there's something about having sex with someone unattractive that's sort of forbidden, so it makes it taboo to you, and therefor exciting?
Shot in the dark :-P
i screwed an ugly girl because sh got sertain thoughts in my head and i completaly regret it
Maybe you just really really want sex and are willing to get it anywhere suddenly? I like the idea of taboo, however.
Wow....not just me that has this desire then,i no im attractive and attract hot guys(my partner is hot) but this over powering desire to have sex with a ugly/un attractive guy....wow gets me going.old /young i dont mind ,i think it may be the fact that it would blow there brains....i honestly cant put my finger on it. Iv had a few ugly(short relationships eg 6mnths) 1night stands n sex has been VERY good,were as with a hansome/hot guy.....avrage.
I wish someone had the answer to this!!!!
I think there are two reasons why women can lust for this kind of fantasy:
1. The idea of a lady with an ugly guy is not traditional. And this means it falls in the fantasy/taboo/untraditional/twisted zone. So, it intrigues the lady to try it.
2. Giving the "candy" to an ugly guy will be granting him several minutes or hours of heaven that he might not get on regular days and this would make him excel and out-do himself in a very animalistic way and fashion leading to an extremely arousing session for the lady!
OMG, It's weird were exactly alike. Maybe all girls are secretly like this.
I'm 33, a hopeless romantic, and am tall, hairy, and portly. Does that fill your taco or should I stop shaving too?
It's 'cause you like feeling like you are blowing his mind, that they are tasting a little bit of heaven and you're spoon-feeding it to them.
Right?
I constantly masturbate to fat, bald men.
Maybe you just have the urge to want to try and have sex with someone unattractive, and see how it feels once you've done it. This is a really tricky question so that's all I got.
I'm a blonde skinny fit 5'2" 115 lb 33 25 37 female. There's this guy at my work who is a tall(ish) chubby slob pervert who sexually harasses all the women. He's also very funny and witty and has a strong dominant personality. He's very grungy masculine and brute-like. At first I hated his guts. He slapped my ass without me wanting him to. I was really turned off at first. He will whistle at me everything he walks past me. Yet he also is very sweet and Wil do anything you ask him to while making dirty jokes and advances at you. He is the type that I avoid. He is the type that I don't want to be seen with. He is the type that I'd be embarrassed if anyone found out we had sex. I'd wear a paper bag over my head. But................there's something so sexy....in such a guilty taboo way, I masterbate to him. He's disgusting, but somehow that forbidden fruit turns me on. It's beyond exciting to think about how animalistically he'd fuck me....how grateful and shocked he would be if I came on to him...how much he'd compliment me and tell me I'm hot and show me off and brag about 'getting me'. How much he'd love to fuck me turns me on. Me fucking the forbidden fruit turns me on. It turns me on so much because it's something I didn't think I'd ever have or go for. Such a thrill.
O.k here goes. I had to laugh at this and a couple of the other posts. The fact that it turns you on is definately a validation issue for you, and a power trip. It really means there's a void in your life that hasn't been filled, and you need to satisfy it sexually. if all men went around harassing women it would be a serious issue, i'm surprised he has got away with it! I thought women had boundaries but I must be wrong. It's perfectly o.k to do what this guy is doing. So all the fellas reading this, lets go!!
Hmmmm, I don't know, tricky one this. for starters you say he harasses all the women, and he gets away with this? What if all blokes did this, including your type? Don't average or good looking guys make you feel good then, don't they want to show you off or brag about you? Or do you not really feel that good about yourself?
If what you are saying is how to get a woman turned on then why don't all men go around sexually harrassing women, what a world it would turn out to be. A subconscious desire for validation and approval.
I think it does have to do with self esteem, maybe even unconsciously. It's usually true that when there is a couple with one of the people being much more physically attractive than the other, the less attractive one will feel lucky to be with a beautiful looking person and they will treat you amazing. This obviously doesn't hold true for every relationship but it does have some merit.
Umm, I dont know about this, I thought people were only attracted to good looking people. Maybe your demisexual?
I used to have sex dreams about really hideous men. Some of them werent even human!
I get that same feeling sometimes tooooo! lol.
Like, I'm constantly looking at, what i would usually think, unattractive men, and saying in my head "Yahh, I'd smash."
: D glad I'm not the only one.
NOTHINGS WRONG WITH YOU JUST COME TO MY HOUSE!!!! nah but seriously lots of people have different things that turn them on your normal and i am fat/ugly
God I hate being so bland, not ugly enough for some girls, not attractive enough for others.
Is it the imperfections of ugly guys that attracts you to them?
I really like couples that look like complete opposites, thinking about how a guy like that could have possibly ever gotten with that girl (big money or big dick?... I'm so shallow thinking that's all women want in men)
OMG ME TOO! I mean I wouldnt cause I love my bf and I wont cheat on him...but I used to think about that all the time. Like a fat ugly or creepy lookin guy. I dunno if its normal...but I know where you are coming from.
I used to have those same feelings. I think it's the idea that an ugly person would be so much more grateful and excited to have sex with you than a normal person would. It's a turn on to imagine being adored so much by someone.
I think inside you just tired of the usual, the normal and want to push your boundaries further. Its like someone tired of the usual sex and want to try something out of the ordinary. I myself attracted to the more unique type of woman and not she doesn't have to be beautiful she has to be unique. Go with your urges you will love it and if not you will move onto something else.
its kinda like when you look at two people one hotter than the other, and something on the inside makes you choose the less hotter one.
LOL. I don't know, I was hoping someone would tell me why. I just get really really turned on when I think about it. Did I mention I'm a virgin? Yeah...Just thought that would help (?)