Is it weird i want a boob job at 18?

Ok i know your supposed to embrace yourself an all but im 18 years old im quite thin no boobs and no bum. I honestly think im a penis away from being a boy because my chest is so flat.
I dont want big boobs, im an acup and i wouldnt go anything bigger than d.
My boyfriend says he likes them but i think he says this to make me feel happy which is sweet but id prefer honesty.
Theres lots of other things id like done like my lips my nose my ears but since i was young i noticed i was the only one without the slightest bump on my chest and it makes me feel unatural, yes a boob job is obviously unatural but it would increase my confidence soo much.
Is this wrong?

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Based on 92 votes (54 yes)
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  • donotmockme

    Why are you giving in to what you're shown on TV? Boob jobs aren't worth it, they're expensive and every 10 years, you need to get them fixed. They're high maitenence and also puts you at a higher risk for breast cancer and several other conditions...people have died from implants. My coworker's niece almost died at 19 from implants last year due to serious complications. I have B cup breasts and feel they're completely normal. Most women have A or B anyway, so why do you want huge boobs that don't match your frame?

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    • royalewitcheese

      Because im sick of having to wear extra padded push up bras every single day so my figure dont look weird.
      Whats worse is my stomach sticks out a bit but with a size or two up id balance i dont know what to do!

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  • gashlover

    fake boobs don't feel real! they're expensive, nasty, and not worth it. the best thing for you to do is start lap swimming. How do you think the breast stroke got its name? My gf lap swims and she's boobalicious! Even if you don't have much in the way of boobs at all, getting it thru exercise is a whole helluva lot sexier and healthier.

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    • RoseIsabella

      The Lover of Gashes knows of what he speaks!

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  • Imnotembarrased

    butt implants

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  • TwoThumbs

    Look. The fact is that....yes, it's normal for you to want this, but only because society norms say this is normal to want to look "perfect"...depending on what you find as ideal.

    That doesn't mean its a good idea. I'm not saying not to get implants...but please wait a few years. You change so much mentally from 18-25....physically as well. Hit the gym if you want a butt. Learn proper nutrition and lift some weights...I promise you...you'll feel much better about changes you made naturally with many less potential regrets.

    As far as other plastic surgery...Ugh...you gotta to learn to love what you got. It's what makes you...you. Have you every been to Beverly Hills. Go there some time. Every other person looks like they could be related. They are so generic looking that its actually hard to look at. Lots of people here just get rid of those features that make them who they are. The bump in their knows....their chins and noses all look alike. It's disturbing and sad...and they constantly need to compensate for their other features that aren't generic....making them more generic. They spend years get surgery after surgery to look more and more plastic. I beg you to think twice about going down that route.

    I understand why you'd want to get implants...and I'm not saying not to..but wait. And don't touch your face...you don't want to learn like a 10,000 other people. And the worst part about it is...that 25 year olds and 50 year olds who've all had these facial plastic surgeries are really hard to tell a part. I can't tell if she's a 25 year old that looks like a 40 year old who got plastic surgery to look 30 or if she's a 50 year old that got plastic surgery to look 35....

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    • peaceandlovebro

      WELL SAID!

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  • dom180

    If your boyfriend says he likes them, believe him. Trust is important.

    I strongly believe that cosmetic surgery is not the only way to beat insecurity. Insecurity is a psychological phenomenon, which means you can fix it psychologically without changing your body.

    It's your body and your choice and you are the only one who can know what the right choice for you is. Surgery might be the right choice for you, and if you think it is then go for it.

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  • EccentricWeird

    Normal? Yes. Stupid? Yes.

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  • peaceandlovebro

    That's gross girl, you need to realize what you're doing. Will you at least wait until you're older to think about it? So many get it young and regret it later on. You're not even fully matured yet and are insanely young. I got a tattoo at 18 and at 30 I grew up and instantly wanted it removed. My woman has A cup breasts and they don't bother me because I adore her. I don't think I could grope fake breasts anyway as that'd gross me out too much and I couldn't squeeze them as I'd be afraid they'd pop.

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    • royalewitcheese

      I know I'm young but yeno when people look in the mirror naked? I cant do it!
      Every thing just doesnt work like im really tall but my bodys flat my hairs short and wont grow an i basically jusy have nipples on ny chest.
      My body just really annoys me
      I don't want people saying im disgusting i want advice!

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      • peaceandlovebro

        Your breasts are probably not even done growing and you can google this if you'd like. Some women don't stop growing until they're in their mid twenties. You might even out just fine.

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        • donotmockme

          Actually I forgot about this as this is what happened to my sister. She was flat chested up until about 21 and she definitely didn't have a boob job. She's a C now so you're completely right.

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          • royalewitcheese

            I do come from a family with flat chests. Apart from my sister who had d cups naturally the lucky bitch is only 16!
            Well thanks anyway

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  • davesumba

    I fucking hate insecure bitches like you who don't listen to your boyfriends when they tell you that you are PERFECTLY fine the way you are.

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  • MizzLove

    I don't have big boobs too and i love seeing girls with bigger boobs. If you really want it, then try to use something natural. I've read an ebook once about ways to naturally get bigger boobs. Their methods is using supplements, massages and cream (made of natural ingredients). Don't go for surgery because that's dangerous (i've watched video of a women on a plane with "exploded" fake boobs, find it on Youtube).

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  • Mersaphe

    i support your decision to get breast enhancements

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  • Soilworker2099

    I love all titties....

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  • LDlauren

    It's normal in that I know a lot of people who want/had boob jobs but I dont agree with it although in this case maby. Although quite often it's what underware you ware

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  • ExoticMayanSaturday

    No none really likes fake boobs anymore. No hatin! I have lots of friends with them but I only hope that it makes them truly happy and if you get a boob job it's for you and you alone not for everyone else to enjoy

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  • cuteenough

    Why dont u just trust your boyfriend may be he really likes them n it may be only you who is having any problem..being a boy I am not concerned with the size of breasts untill i have genuine feelings for the girl.

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  • Riddler

    You might not realize this but anything bigger than a B is BIG. B is the average size for womens breasts. You don't need big boobs. You need to be happy with yourself.

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  • royalewitcheese

    I used to have awful teeth as a kid i had braces till i was 18 when tgey came off the confidence i got was amazing. I was bullied a lot over my looks mostt my school life especially with teeth.
    Those bullies see me now and compliment my teeth and it gives me such a rush i just thought surgery might make a difference but the gym things is a good idea thanks everyone!

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  • togoleck

    You sound like you don't believe your boyfriend (who says he likes your body already).

    When you get the work done, how will you believe future boyfriends (who say they likes you for you, and not the way you now look)?

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  • Parky_Parker

    I don't think there is anything wrong with a person getting a "nose job" or breast implants or anything really. However, once you start thinking about getting several "enhancements," there might be some psychological issues there. I would really talk to a therapist. Also, believe your boyfriend if he tells you that your breasts are fine.

    Also, 18 is fairly young to get any work done. Legally you are an adult, but feelings and opinions change, trust me. Please wait at least 2 or 3 years and re-consider. And if you decide to go through with it, that's okay.

    Just remember, always be thankful for what you have. You are beautiful either way.

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  • mrkrule

    It's a definitely normal feeling, but I don't think it's necessarily healthy. Why don't you feel feminine? Tits and ass aren't what make a woman. Look at all the fashion models that have boyish figures... I think it's cute. And girl, hell no I doubt your bf is lying, and if you do get a boob job, you shouldn't be doing it for men anyway.

    I'm not against plastic surgery for things that legitimately harm your self esteem, but since you seem to want so much work done I think the problem isn't your body, but yourself. No amount of surgery will fix that. Learn to like your body and be okay with it, even when it's not exactly what you wanted. Wear clothes that make you feel great. Don't worry about what boys think, find your own source of confidence.

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    • royalewitcheese

      I dont worry what boys think though everyone thinks o wear makeup hair extensions padded bras for boys, it's to make me feel good about myself which is so hard with al the natural beauties around me

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