Is it weird?
When i talk to someone i don't look at them.
i stare at the wall while i talk to them.
once this guy asked me "why do you like to stare at the wall?"
I can't get myself to make eye contact with them while talking.
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When i talk to someone i don't look at them.
i stare at the wall while i talk to them.
once this guy asked me "why do you like to stare at the wall?"
I can't get myself to make eye contact with them while talking.
in american and europe i think , they like having eye contact while talking , but in asia, it would be considered impolite or curious. even in japan, a junior usually look down when they talk to their senior. it just something like when you are in rome do as romans do. i dont take it serious
Eye contact has different connotations for different cultures, in some it's a sign of respect to NOT make eye contact. That aside, I don't always make eye contact when talking to people. No real reason behind it, I just sometimes don't.
Perhaps your autistic.
Try to build your way up, maybe look down instead of at the wall. Some people might not understand and think you're rude.
But seriously, go to a doctor maybe, ask about autism.
i know this is random but have you ever thought you may be autistic because lack of eye contact is one sign of autism but then again it could be something completly different
I make eye contact with anyone I talk to I dunno why! But it's okay my friend does what you do.... Sometimes she stares at different people when she is directly talking to YOU... Ehh your fine just pehapse a bit shy(:
Maybe you become bored when you look at some person´s eyes but... you can try, can not you?
Oh come on with "I can'" - more like you won't - so just try, you know, this supreme effort.
Its rude to not make visual contact with people you talk with. Rude & weird.