Is it unhealthy to be intensely attracted to your own body?

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I'm a 22 year old male with an incredibly feminine body. At first glance most people assume I'm a women. I'm very lithe, have soft features and my body proportions are quite ladylike.

Recently, I've been getting into the habit of dressing up. Skirts, tights, blouses and the like. They suit me a lot better than male clothes which often feel too big for me.

The thing is that I've actually started to find myself very attractive. Sexually, I mean. More so that other people. I'm not a particularly narcissistic person, as far as I can tell at least. If anything I can be a bit shy and awkward. But I've kind of been falling for myself. Taking pictures for my own enjoyment, posing in the mirror. I've even found myself wishing there was another me to be with.

This feels like something that probably isn't natural. Maybe unhealthy? I don't know. But it's certainly not the norm anyway. Is it something I should consider talking to someone about or just a quirky trait that I have?

Thanks in advance!

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    5 years ago

    If I could I'd fuck myself.

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    • Ducklord246
      5 years ago

      Lol

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    • Anonymous200
      5 years ago

      Most people do, actually.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    Normal or not it doesn't matter.
    Think of it like this - though "activities" are kind of limited, you can "have sex" when ever you want, no reciprocation needed. You can dress however you like and not have to beg for it...

    Being one's own best lover is the best, especially if you like dressing up. It is a good percentage of the satisfaction of having a sexy partner but with NONE of the bullcrap. To depend on someone else is a fraction of the "ideal" but with 100% of the bullcrap.

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  • Fair_Lucy
    5 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with having a positive self image, and I see this a lot within the crossdressing community. It's a sort of "What I'm attracted to is also my ideal self" thing. Things get confused. It's pretty normal as long as long as you are not the main object of your attraction. In other words, still more attracted to other people.

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  • smxlbo
    5 years ago

    it's not typical, but it's still okay.

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  • tomcatt666
    5 years ago

    You're a transvestite: Someone who gets off on dressing as the opposite sex. It's completely different from transgender.

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  • gapeman420
    5 years ago

    It's completely normal to explore yourself. You aren't harming anyone. I just asked a question almost identical t ok this one.

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    I think most people, probably women, do that often. One of my long-time friends is a hot, beautiful, street-wise blonde, who can be both hard and demure at the same time. She knows she can look great.

    We went to a business function together, and she wore the tight, sexy, little black dress. Walked into the place and to the full-length mirror, she turned to the side, and said "Damn, my ass looks hot in this..I DO have a great ass!". Then, to the front, puffed up the boobs, and said "Look at the tits on me! I'd so fuck me". And she wasn't joking or being funny. She meant it.

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  • Annie25
    5 years ago

    Autosexual?

    "Autosexual is a very specific term used by sex researcher Bernard Apfelbaum in his contributions specifically to "Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy." Very clearly, it refers to someone who has a great deal of trouble responding to someone else sexually but can respond fairly or very well to their own touch."

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  • bfus
    5 years ago

    When I was a teenager I jerked off to my reflection in my giant bedroom mirror a lot.

    I had no internet or porn magazines at the time, so there wasn't much material.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    I once knew a gay dude who would spank his monkey in the mirror.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    You sound like you have gay tendencies. What do you think of girls sexually compared to guys?

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