Is it true if i cant make myself orgasm no one could?

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A couple of months ago I started dating this guy who's now my ex but theres something he said that bothers me to this day. After about 2 weeks of dating he asked if I wanted to have sex and I told him we needed to wait because i just met him. We did have oral but never intercourse and he was always horny 24/7. I also noticed he would watch porn ALOT. I didn't like that but I thought maybe its because we weren't having sex.

He would do things like say he wanted to masturbate but didn't want me in the room when he would do it and if i was in the room he didn't want me to speak. And he always watched porn when he did it and that was the only way to make him cum. About a month later we were talking on the phone(he went to visit his family in texas for a couple weeks) and he was telling me how he mastubrates almost every day. Then he started questioning me and stuff. He asked me how much do I maturbate and i told him rarely and he was so confused. He then proceeded to tell me how i needed to start watching porn so I can make masturbate and make myself orgasm because if i couldnt make myself orgasm no one could. I felt so bad when he said this because i felt like i was broken.

The thing is, I do get horny and it's not like I'm asexual or anything. I just don't think watching porn is a good thing and dont really have time to maturbate everyday. Is it true if I cant make myself orgasm no one could? Is it normal to not watch porn or masturbate?

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    He's wrong. And your fine for not wanting to do that. What he said was hurtful but its not true. He must have his own issues. Just be yourself and forget about it

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  • AcademyPrincess
    6 years ago

    I can only make myself orgasm by playing with my clit. If I finger myself I get nothing; but when a guy fingers me I have no problem coming. It's just mainly about the scenery and texture. For example, having a guy doing it is much more arousing and a guys hands are rougher and they have a cock (;

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  • Kerryboy38
    6 years ago

    Fuck you u cunt

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  • Firsttaste
    6 years ago

    I would like to share a comment however you didn't give enough information, Like your age,How many relationships you have had.If I had that info It would help me to respond. Thanks

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  • Angelandme
    6 years ago

    Libido of a pmsing old lady, confirmed!

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    • Firsttaste
      6 years ago

      Hello I just read your comment and I don't quite understand what you were saying. Hopefully you can explain it to me. I would like to send a comment but I feel I'm missing something. Thanks.

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      • Angelandme
        6 years ago

        Your sex drive seems low and I compare that to mine which is at least, to my understanding, half of what a normal male libido is. I mean you seem to hardly even take care of yourself.

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        • QuesoTea
          6 years ago

          You never met me how do you not know i take care of myself?

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          • Angelandme
            6 years ago

            You said you "dont really have time to maturbate everyday"

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