Is it too much to ask

my wife wont have sex with me.everytime i try i get rejected.Trust me it's like a monumental monthly event at worse.Every other I'm being too "horny" when I try to do it with her, or ask.I don't wanna cheat or look at porn but man this sucks I NEED SEX.THATS WHY I GOT MARRIED. I believe in christian values so all sexually immoral acts are out of the question for me what do I do?

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  • CorryA90

    lol Married for sex hahahahahah what an idiot

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  • Solimorphic

    You got married for sex? Huh????

    I heard they did that during the Beaver Cleaver era.

    Today people get DIVORCED for sex.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25

    Go lay sum ppl down ul figure it out

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  • BoredGuy

    you are so fcked up...

    1st you got married
    2nd you believe in fairies
    3rd your not getting some, and you haven't dump her yet
    4th you don't watching porn

    5th what are "bad" sexual acts ffs ?!?!?

    i bet your wife is just bored of you.

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  • BH7786

    Dude, these people can say whatever they want but i am happily married & my wife & i have sex atleast twicw a week. I cant imagine her not wanting it like that & if she didnt i would believe there is a bigger problem than the sex (or lack there of) she may be getting it else where. hope thats not the case for you, But NO. THIS IS NOT NORMAL!!!!! Good luck!

    ps. if you do ever get it from her again make sure its not all about you. make her happy & she will want it more! i make it a point to satisfy my wife before i even think about myself then again when i am.

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  • razpbery

    Yeah, go to counseling.

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  • Bubear50

    Have you tried offering her money?

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  • tarobubbletea

    I would tell her this "This marriage is going to crumble to pieces starting with me cheating, if don't start having sex like we use too."
    But thats just me, I can be blunt at times lol.

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  • alexlong

    LOL

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  • evilspawn4

    one sure fire way to get your wife in the sack is to show her a good time,pick a day that you are off work(you might have to call in sick if your wife works) arrange for a baby sitter and take her somewhere special (maybe a place you guys first met,proposed,or a very fancy restaurant) and i could also suggest re proposing and offering to renew your vows and this will probably work and make it a surprise...tell her to dress nice because you have a surprise for her that day but don't tell her what it is

    and if all goes well love making will be inevitable :)

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  • Get a hobby I guess.

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  • bobpanda91

    Go to a marriage counselor, there could be some underlying problems causing your wife's sex aversion. She could be unhappy with some other aspect of your marriage and showing it by refusing you sex.

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