Is it too late in the game to ask him what he likes?

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My bf and i have been dating for a year and a half but recently been getting closer. However, I have always felt like I'm not the type of girl he wants to be with based on the vibes he gives off: he doesn't make it clear that he's with me to other pple (girls), he doesn't ask me what I want to do in life, he doesn't congratulate me when I accomplish something, and more things. So I want to ask him what does he look for in a girl he wants to be with? He's prob going to look at me like insecure which I am cause he makes me feel that way. And he will say that theres no point in answering because hes with me so that should say enough. Well then why those mixed signals? I just feel like hes not proud of being with me.

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  • Short4Words
    9 years ago

    You guys should be on each others level... and communication is key to any successful relationship. Talk to him.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    A much better question to ask him is what things about you does he like. If like his answer, now you will know what to do.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Actually I already have. He said he likes me cause I'm funny and I'm always happy and positive but he also mentioned some thing he doesn't like of me. But I feel like my initial question will be more satisfying cause then I'll know if he's looking for someone who is totally not me and I can stop wasting each others time or if it comes close to who I am then hallelujah.

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      • green_boogers
        9 years ago

        Except you should ask yourself that question about him.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Yeah and all the things I like of him make me stay and hold on but idk if it's worth it which is why I wanna ask him my initial question.

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  • sheven
    9 years ago

    If you feel like your boyfriend is not supporting you for who you are and ashamed of you, you should probably rethink your own investment in the relationship.

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  • pixie44
    9 years ago

    Talk to him and if you still feel that way I think its an unhealthy relationship. I feel like your boyfriend/girlfriend shouldn't be making you insecure but make you feel more secure with yourself. You should be happy.
    And Why isn't he introducing you as his girlfriend? That's strange. How does he introduce you? As his friend?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Recently he introduced me to his roommates and he said "hey I'd like u to meet someone..." I was eh....

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