Is it time for mourning or celebrating?

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When you leave a relationship out of which you got nothing except disrespect, lack of consideration, selfishness, is it supposed to be a moment of happiness for having gotten rid of someone who treated you badly, or a moment of sadness because the relationship is over and you realized a little too late that it was all based on lies and deceit and you wasted your time and love away?

Celebration time! 14
Start crying... 2
It's a mix 20
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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    Realistically, it'll probably be a mix of both due to the feelings involved and I don't think many people can just flip a switch and instantly celebrate without feeling sad at all unless the feelings left a long time ago. Still, I think 100% celebration is ideal since then you're doing yourself a favor by standing up for your right to respect.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Thank you. I really appreciate your comment. I feel somewhat like that.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Mourn when you feel like it and go out celebrate that you are now free to flirt and date all the cuties that are out there! ;D

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    If a great burden has been lifted then it normally makes you happy.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    It's hard to just feel okay when someone who was a big part of your life just leaves the picture like that. Even if they weren't right for you, I think most people would mourn a little bit. Then later when you've gotten over the sad period, you get the feeling of "what was I thinking?? Shouldn't have lasted as long as it did!"

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