Is it strange to dislike someone for no reason at all?

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So i have this person living with me who i absolutely can not stand. She's really nice, maybe a little too nice, and when she first moved in it was fine, but now i hide away in my bedroom just to avoid her. I can't kick her out because she had all her stuff (house, car, jet-skis, you name it) stolen from people who took advantage of her, and she had no one else to turn to. She's extremely outgoing, which i am not. I would call myself half extroverted half introverted, but whenever she is around i turn into the biggest introvert in the world.

Is it normal to dislike someone for literally NO REASON AT ALL, or have NO IDEA why you can't stand a person? I try so hard to enjoy her company, but it honestly just makes me either irritated or uncomfortable to be around her. She has never done anything to me, besides voice her strong opinions maybe a bit too loudly. She's the type of person who when they think they're right, they know they're right. What do you guys think? I could list hundreds of things about her that annoy me, but none of them are big enough reasons to dislike someone this much. I can't seem to pin-point the root of where my feelings are coming from. Never in my life have i ever been this judgmental, its driving me crazy!

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  • matthewtheking
    5 years ago

    Ever have that feeling where you just don't like someones face... Like you just hate them and want to maybe punch them but you don't. Maybe you feel that way towards her, and plus she seems annoying and kinda stupid so that could add on to the hate. I just hate this person by reading what you wrote down.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Some people are just annoying because of who they are.

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  • Alichael
    5 years ago

    Some people get irritated by "too nice", I guess that the nice ones are too sicky sweet and sacharrine for the type of people who feel that being tough and hard nosed is totally nessesary in life. Also, people that are too nice often come accross as fake to some people because they don't believe that anyone could sincerely be so nice in such a hard cruel world. Also, many people choose the nice ones to lash out at in order to vent the anger and frustrations in their own life, and they know that the nice people will let them and the assholes won't. Same with why people will use the nice ones to get what they want, because the pricks won't give it to them.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    She sounds fake, manipulative and condescending to me, and I think In would be annoyed by her.

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  • woeisme
    5 years ago

    What part of yourself is she mirroring back to you? What is she showing you about yourself that you cannot see? From there you will come to know the genesis, where it comes from.

    Diving deep

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  • cipro
    5 years ago

    Have sex with her. This should fix ur dislikes.

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  • jack_shephard
    5 years ago

    Didn't read the whole thing but there's always a person who you hate for no reason.

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