Is it right to derive intense pleasure from torturing/being tortured?

From a really early age I have been obsessed by power in a sexual sense. I get really turned on by the thought of tying people up and torturing them. Also, I quite like being tortured (or at least immobilized). None of this is ever done without the other person's consent (nor ever will be).

Is all this normal or seriously abnormal? Is the wiring wrong? I also have a lot of totally normal sexual experiences.

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Based on 233 votes (178 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • Intrested

    Finally I found some one that thinks the same way i do. I used to have fantasies of the girls at my preschool tying me up naked. And now (I'm a little ashamed of this but i am trying to quite) I whatch torture porn online.

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  • Anaid

    It's called BDSM. And it's normal.

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  • rita_skeeter

    totally normal...it's a fantasy! i'm only 18 and ive been getting off to tots of that for years.

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  • anti-hero

    Time

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    This is called S&M. You should look it up. Better yet ill give you link. http://www.dsm5.org/Research/Documents/Krueger_ASB%20Feb%202011.pdf

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  • nkwacky

    Totally normal. I can only have sex if it's rough. I like my sexual partner put me in embarrassing situations and beating me up. Pinching, biting, even a bit of blood. And then I also like to rape the guy I'm with. (all consensual). There's a lot of pain and shrieks and cussing when I go to bang someone.

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  • bonniebrooks

    I have no idea if its normal or not, but somehow over the years I have become very aroused by scenes of torture in movies,I have no desire to hurt anyone or myself by I really get aroused waatching it

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  • Janet1957

    it is normal and as long as both parties agree then the sky is the limit. I enjoy being forced to submit to spankings and anal torture. The more bizarre and the kinkier the more excited I get. My favorite kink is to be forced to perform devient sex acts in front of an audience and to be publicly humiliated and ass fucked till I have an orgasm. Then to be spanked roughly for being so nasty.

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  • Janet1957

    Perfectly normal. Two consenting adults as long as both parties agree may do what ever they want. What type of tourture do you do to them. Just curious.

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  • Fadina

    I loved being controlled and, slitly abused by my boyfriend while we had sex, loved being dominated by him

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  • sparrowfeed

    lol .. when i was little (9, 10 years old) i used to tie myself up.. also, even at that early age i think i was turned on by people getting hurt or being bound. kind of strange.. at the time, i probably wasn't aware it was a sexual thing.

    i don't know.. i think a lot of people have this fetish. it's definitely NOT abnormal.

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  • DisturbedFreak

    Oh, perfectly normal, when bin ladin tied me up and put a hood over me i was jizzing all night long. FUCKING IDIOT

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  • Dammitkortni

    It's pretty common, if not normal...

    And Where have you BEEN all my life??

    ;)

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  • evangel

    perfectly normal my dear, its all just a bit of fun... like the whole idea of rape

    most girls i know fantasies about being raped in a perfectly safe way by someone they know and love, but most of them will never tell their boyfriends or who ever lol in fact i talk doty to a lot of my female friend about doing it with them
    they get so turned on haha

    perfectly normal though

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