Is it right to delete the girl who rejected you?

ok,here is my story.at the beginning of this year,i met a girl in my firm,and suddenly had a crush on her.we were all new members to this firm so i had a chance to get her cellphone number.we had a little chat for the next six months,i didn't say i like her immediately because i didn't want to be in such a rush.in September,finally i asked her for a dinner,she rejected.and in October,i asked again,and again it was a rejection.
last month,i got a third rejection,so i thought i should give up the whole thing.but this time after she said "no",she asked me why i was keeping invite her.actually i was a little surprised(or maybe annoyed) at her question.i mean it can't be more obvious, i told her "because i fell i have a crush on you" .i omit the question "can't you see that??? "
as every girl who rejected me she said we could be friend.
i was a little sad because i waited a whole year,and that was also a relief because finally i got an answer.
and after that she never reply to my messages,i just sent three.
the job was very boring so i quited it this month,and these years i kept all the girls cellphone number,who rejected me,i never connected them again.
i think it is hard for two strangers to build up a relationship,though the relationship collapsed soon after.
should delete those numbers?

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  • thegypsysailor

    Absolutely. Take the hint, they just aren't interested in you.
    You will find somebody, but those are not in your future. Save the memory space for new ones.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You should have forgotten about her after the first or at least the second time she said no. I'm sorry you're feeling bad, but it's best to as Gypsysailor said, "take the hint." We are all powerless over whether or not others are romantically interested in us. Persistence doesn't get you the girl if she's not interested.

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    • TrustMeImLying

      As much as I agree with your last bit, guys aren't helped by the fact that actually quite a few girls out there require a guy to be persistent before they will say yes. And while this is largely an immature girl issue, there are still a few older women who play such games.

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      • (s)aint

        And I agree with Rose on that one. Persisting guys is SUCH a turn-off and any girls who plays these sorts of games should get smacked in the head.

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  • (s)aint

    Leave a woman be after the first rejection. If anything showing that you respect her will show her that you are a potential friend and maybe in the future she would consider dating you.

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  • Couman

    I sometimes wish I could delete people, but I wouldn't do it over something as trivial as this.

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  • pastor_of_muppets

    It has always been amusing to me how women managed to gain "the power" while they statistically have less of a chance than a guy. Women outnumber men 3 to 1...
    So, if anything, women are meant to feel scared that they are the ones who might end up alone. Not men.

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    • CountessDouche

      ...because out genitals are more magical than yours.

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    • (s)aint

      I think it's genetic. Women want men who would suit for mating. Scared loner-geeks with a fucked up face isn't most women's idealistic partners ...

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