Is it right to avoid my sister?

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i have got a sister who is 18 and im 22. we are both pretty but she might be a little bit prettier. we're not close at all because when we were young she used to tell me thar im not pretty and that her friends think im ugly and she alwaya made me upset and i cried because i am very sensitive . i know im pretty but her comments used to hurt me because she is my sister and she should bring myself confidence up not down. she always used to criticize me about everything as well . until one day i decided i will not be close to her anymore and ill never sit be in one place with her and i really did so and we' ve been away from each other for 7 years now but she stills manages to criticize me sometimes even without asking her opinion and i really hate being around people who criticize alot. my question is what should i do to let her stop critisizing me and is the decision i took to avoid her as much as i could a right decision?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Throw poo at her.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Yeah, stay away from her, but you can't do anything to change her

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Looks like you made the right decision by distancing yourself from her. She certainly sounds like quite the toxic person.

    Ellenna is right, you can't change her. We are all powerless over people, places and things. I suppose when you do see her and she offers you unsolicited advice and opinions you can either ignore her or say something like, "I don't believe I asked for your opinion".

    Sorry you're having this problem, and I wish you all the best, OP.

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