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Me and my partner play role play when having sex sometimes it’s good but lately she wants me to pretend I’m a friend of hers she knows and eithen call me his name is this right ? Do you think she wants to have sex with this person for real
Fuck that shit! Role playing that you're a pirate, cowboy or viking would be pretty normal, but role playing that you're some random dude she knows is fucked up. I totally think she wants to bang that guy. Tell her skank ass that you're not gonna do it for her. She must be one Hell of a selfish inconsiderate bitch to tell you to this, and really fucking stupid to think it wouldn't bother you at all. What a stupid cunt.
Thanks I think I’m reliasing now I did ask her today why do u want to think I’m someone you know and she said so it makes it more real for us and that she can put a face to it she eithen said it makes the game more horny . Think you guys could be right she might want to have sex with him
You're very welcome, and I'm sorry that myself and others here had to be the proverbial bearers of bad news. From what you're telling me her answers sound nonsensical, and borderline incoherent. Don't humor her on this bullshit! What kind of idiot bitch says shit like, "it makes the game more horny"? Honestly, you probably caught her off guard, and she doesn't know what to say.
Take it from me, an older more conservative woman who doesn't even watch porn, the most real sex you can have is with the lights on, or in broad daylight while gazing deeply into each other's eyes! No fantasies about other people just face to face raw sex!
Yeah, I'm sorry, I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw her flaky ass! If she were any more flaky you would have to use dandruff shampoo on her.
That's very accurate. I had a toxic gf who was sometimes making me jealous with this kind of stuff. Turned out she was a massive golddigger nymphomaniac who was always threatnening to cheat on me or intending to have sex with the entire University whenever I was unable to take her out or to pay for all her shit or when I was trying to meet friends. This is accurate, Rose knows what she's saying.
Wow she sounds bad iv not had that yet of her she just wants to think of someone why we have sex
Threatening to cheat on you? Damn! Yeah, she doesn't sound like she's worth the stuff I'm about to flush down the toilet. She was probably a malignant narcissistic abuser, they're not just men.
I don't think there's any "might" about it and if you're at all uneasy about it, don't go along with it. You could also ask her how she'd feel about you pretending she's someone else you know, say her sister or her best girlfriend?
While I get your point, comparing the person she talks about to those relationships is a bit of a stretch.
It'd make more sense to compare him to other girls in the same situation or position of the guy the gf wants to moan about.
So, asking if he can imagine one of his friends that's an attractive girl and moan her name.
That'd be a more fair comparison, as the girl isn't moaning her bfs brother or dad or bestfriend.
You may consider asking yourself one question:
If she "did it" with this other guy, would it upset you, or would it arouse you?
Whereas MOST people, as far as a pure percentage of the general population, are absolutely repulsed, appaled, or offended by the mere consideration of the idea, SOME people are particularly aroused by the same idea concept.
This comment is not intended to condone, nor condemn, either perspective, it is simply stating a societal fact.
If the idea of "sharing" your partner is unacceptable, then it is unacceptable for her to expect you to expect you to accept her request. Even if her "request" is simply a playful fantasy, if it causes you to feel anxiety, she should honor your sentiment, and stop requesting that you oblige.
As they say, "No means 'no'". If she cannot honor your "no", the two of you are simply not compatible and you are both wasting each others' time, and preventing each other from finding what each of you are seeking.
If you are not open to an "open" relationship, and she is, you need to move on, as does she.
If she "moves on" by hooking up with that guy, who's name she wants to utter, during sexual encounters with you, it answers the question of whether or not she really wanted to be with him.
If she does not hook up with him, either he was not interested, or it was just a verbalization of a playful fantasy that made you uncomfortable.
In any case, from your posting, I perceive that she is looking for something, whether "real", or "fantasy", that you are not interested in providing.
If this is the case, you both need to move on.
No matter what, you need to discuss this, clearly, NOW, before both of you move further down a "dead end street", wasting each other's time.
I do this all the time.
Plus, my partner and I are poly.
Open relationship with rules.
But yeah, sometimes my fantasy involves someone else and it helps add spice to the bedroom. It's also fun to moan another guys name and see him get wild with arousal and jealousy and then he fucks me until I can't stand and I forget my own name.
You just gotta not be a prude about it.
It's not a matter or right or wrong.
But if you like it or not.
If you really don't, just discuss it with her. Explain your feelings, maybe find some compromises. Like, maybe a favorite actor she has the hots for and always wanted to fuck. That way it's less personal but it's still fun.
Ok thanks guys I fought this could happen is this why she thinks about him in roleplay
She’s gonna cheat on you, if she ever gets the opportunity to have sex with him she’s gonna take it.
You should accept the fact that you will be her cuck one day and you will be licking his cum from her pussy, it's OK cuckolds do that a lot!
Why does it seem like you're being sarcastic and acting as if being a cuck is a bad thing?
It can be really hot and add to the bedroom spice.
People are always okay with adding another girl, but then got so misogynistic over another guy.
*rolls eyes*
All that matters is honesty and safety.
Better to be with an honest person, then someone who sneaks behind your back to do things.