Is it really normal behavior?

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Well, I guess it was my fault.
Ya see, I'm a girl and I joined a baseball team. Not SOFTBALL!! BASEBALL with a bunch of guys.
Anyways, I get dressed with them and stuff and we all make fun of each other. But this guy named Kyle on my team it a little bit.. well the other way.
I was messing around and told him that he had a bulge in his boxers and he walked over to me and said i know and then pushed me against the locker and said you wanna feel?
I tried to push him away but he laughed but then all the other guys ganged up on him and he backed up but im afraid to change now.
So ya, wat should i do?

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Based on 56 votes (19 yes)
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  • rainbowdrop
    12 years ago

    You guys change in the same locker room? That's awkward and weird. Even though you joined the baseball team, and your teammates are all boys, that. Doesn't mean you have to change in the same area. Id be super skeeved out! Just change in the bathroom with the stall door closed, or the girls locker room if possible. The people in your school should be able to accommodate for you. If not, then make them! You have the right to change in peace if you're a girl and they are boys. Even if Kyle is "the other way", you shouldn't joke with anyone because they could take it the wrong way and then this happens. Boys are kind of immature.

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    • CinnamonToast
      12 years ago

      You, sir or madam, are a sexist.

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      • rainbowdrop
        12 years ago

        You, sir or madam, are a breakfast item.

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  • Havin
    12 years ago

    He had a boner for you sweetie. In other words he wants to err.. have sex with you. Yes its normal, but for your safety I think you should join another team, maybe one with girls in it too. Do you change in front of the boys?? A BIG NO NO!! If so, no wonder why that happened!! How old are you anyway?

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    • anneeatzurheartnom
      12 years ago

      yea we all change its not a big deal... well intil that happened.

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  • reddragon67
    9 years ago

    Simply .. Try to change your clothes somewhere else so as not to provoke the feelings of the team.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    You should report him to the coach and for now on change your clothes elsewhere.

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  • dudecalmdown
    11 years ago

    Try not being a girl, that should help

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Isn't this very similar to a previous question? I don't think it's real.

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  • CinnamonToast
    12 years ago

    If he's not already a rapist, he will be someday. I'm glad the rest of your team stopped him. By all means, try not to change in front of him; see if you can get the other guys to form a wall between you and him when you do.

    I think it's cool that you're mixing with guys and not going that whole 'guys and girls have to be sooo bloody different and separate' route. It's this Kyle jackass that's the problem. If he does it again complain to the coach and hope he gets kicked off the team.

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    • rainbowdrop
      12 years ago

      Lol if I'm on a team that requires getting undressed in the boys locker room, and they are making rude gestures...rude SEXUAL gestures, then its completely necessary to have them seperate. I know that I wouldn't want that to happen, or even the possibility of having it happen. and actually, we are "sooo bloody different" when it comes to this kind of situation as it could lead to sexual harassment and all sorts of unecessary shit. You know damn well that there are a bazillion Kyles (even worse) out there. Especially if this girl is in high school. (I'm assuming here) now a partition would be fine, i guess, but it would have to actually function as that.

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