Is it pragmatic to not date

I find it hard to become stimulated. I also find social interaction hard because I'm very quiet and have odd quirks which some find creepy. I tend to date extreme personalitys because I have a habit of analyzing people and so find most people too predictable to be any sort of fun in the long term. I tend to be extremely detached and this happens on a subconscious level. So I don't mean to do it. My brain can't handle strong emotions so I think often numbs or mellows everything. Which makes me unresponsive, quiet, reserved and I come across as aloof often. So I decided to not date anymore since if I date a healthy mate I'll get bored. If I date an unhealthy one it's dysfunctional for both of us. Along with that I see how much suffering that happens when losing a loved one. So why suffer like everyone else.