Is it possible to get a girlfriend even if you're a total loser?

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As I'm sure all of you guys know, there is tons of advice on the internet telling you how to get a girlfriend. All the advice articles say similar stuff - that you should be more confident, have good hygiene, be funny, be healthy, etc. What I'm wondering is if it's possible to get a girlfriend if you don't follow any of the advice or if you possess all the qualities that naturally turn women off, such as being a desperate, whiny, inconsiderate slob. Is it possible that some girl might be attracted to someone like that as a result of some sort of natural fluke?

For the record, I don't consider myself to be a total loser. To be honest, I'm probably about half loser, half desirable, but I often see people who are clearly less desirable than me who have girlfriends, so that's made me question the validity of the advice. Not that I feel it's totally invalid, but there must be some exceptions. Any thoughts?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    In my opinion, being a slob seems to be the worst trait for getting a girlfriend. I have a friend who is extremely messy, and he seems to get girlfriends temporarily, but the fact that he is a slob chases them away. He asks for advice and I tell him to clean his fucking truck and house, yet he insists that is not the reason, even though every girl he gets with complains to me that he is a slob. Being a slob is a complete deal breaker for most girls and is inexcusable because even a monkey can pick up his garbage.

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      I have to disagree somewhat, I'm 35 and I've seen plenty of slobs get women. If said slob has the ability to bullshit the women he is after, in whatever way a somewhat skillful bullshitter can do it, that seems to make a huge difference.

      You have a good point also, it's just not always true.

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  • thegipsysail0r
    8 years ago

    Arg! Me thinks ye should just let me suck on ye salty sea dog!

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    • Koda
      8 years ago

      lol...

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  • Voray
    8 years ago

    Yes. Get a girl who is a loser.

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  • RainbowDischarge
    8 years ago

    I've got some loser qualities but I've managed to get a boyfriend, lol

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    • regisphilbin
      8 years ago

      it's different for girls you wouldn't understand

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    depends on the loser

    if yall gots yalls shit together and act civil yalls got a long row to hoe

    apparently in todays world if yallre an insane bossy douchebag with no hope and a few months wortha workout tone yallre desirable as fuck and womens gonna fall all over yalls ass

    welcome to the world

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      From what I've seen there is basically no way to predict how a woman will feel about a given guy at any random time. I've seen guys living in basements get women to fall in love with them, idk I guess the women get it in their head that they are gonna "save" them? And I've seen guys who have it fairly well put together who have a VERY hard time finding a woman to love them.

      It's basically impossible to predict.

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  • Koda
    8 years ago

    I know a morbidly obese guy who ALWAYS has a girlfriend. He has zilch in the looks department. He's always out of work and he's a liar. Yet somehow, he always seems to find girls desperate enough to take him, at least, for a little while. You don't wanna be him though, do you? C'mon! Have some standards. Desperate people are so revolting.

    If you have any kind of charm and can build yourself up, you'll be fine. The confidence thing, sadly, isn't BS. Girls do love bad boys. And if you can supply sex, girls who aren't getting any might take the bait. You're a confirmed loser for being so desperate, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't know there's hope for people like you.

    I read somewhere that self-reported social outcasts do better in the dating world than anyone else. This is because they know how to settle. Anyone can get laid if they want it. There are desperate people everywhere. Personally, I think it's more lame to be so desperate than to be a virgin by choice.

    In my social circle, the average looking shy people are the forever single ones. The ugly losers are always dating ugly losers and the good-looking people date each other as well... usually...

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  • Goomats
    8 years ago

    You can always get want you deserve. If you are a total loser a.k.a. lazy, selfish, bad hygiene, rude, then you CAN get a lazy, selfish, rude smelly woman. The problem with losers is that they usually have higher standards for others than themselves.

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  • jonn
    8 years ago

    it doesn't matter if you're a: a##hole, dumb, slob, or the worst kind of sick pervert. the only thing you need to get women is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$!

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  • gummy_jr
    8 years ago

    You will have absolutely no chance of getting a girlfriend if you wear a fedora.

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  • cozyinhere
    8 years ago

    Either the girl is a loser as well.
    She has some mother instinct so she would feel sorry for you.
    Some girls might find losers attractive.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago

    Even losers get lucky sometimes.

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  • VinnyB
    8 years ago

    Lots of total losers have girlfriends, so it must be possible.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Anything is possible.

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    • CynicalOptimist
      8 years ago

      Except things that aren't, of course.

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      • Redcoats
        8 years ago

        In "theory" everything is possible (;

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  • Diam0ndGirl
    8 years ago

    Ew! I would never date a loser!

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