Is it possible that an emotionally vulnerable person...

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If a person is emotionally vulnerable enough, that a person, regardless of gender, could take advantage of the emotionally vulnerable person. This can be guy to girl, girl to guy, girl to girl, and guy to guy. Also do you think it could happen to you, if you were vulnerable enough. I am curious because a friend of mine had sex with a guy she wouldn't have had sex with prior to her being so emotional.

Yes, it can happen 156
No, it's not possible. 1
It can only happen to girls. 12
Vulnerable or not, they knew what they were doing. 54
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I can honostly say that I'm not an emotionally vulnerable person. It would be interesting to see how someone would try to play me on such a thing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Of course it is, you hear about it all the time. As for me, I'm not sure; I want to say no but you never know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Being taken advantage of can happen to anyone regardless of gender. Emotionally, physically, any other way you can think of. Depends on what state the person is in.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yes it can happen. I do this to associates that have offended me in some way and if or when they open up to me I'll take advantage or 'unknowingly' play on their emotions. Or just to people I don't like in general. That used to happen to me in the past when I was really little and this is probably why I do it to others. I'm not really open...even to my closest friends. I'm only open with close family members. I think about whats been done to me in the past and I don't want to be an open book.

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    • Jiovanie
      12 years ago

      Oh, that's interesting? Could you elaborate on this some more?

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Well I'm not sure on what part you're talking about but I'll do both.

        When I was younger I mentioned people used to toy with my emotions/feelings. One time I told a girl that I liked a boy and she told me that she would put in a 'good' word for me. It seemed like afterwards the boy was taking real interest in me and would asked me to do things for him (nothing sexual though lool) and would talk to me a lot etc. Then one time when he was around his friends, I asked him was he coming over to a party I planned and he laughed in my face and was pretty much confused as to why I was talking to him. He also made fun of me and ever since then I was never open. The girl also smiled in my face everyday after that too. < That was a case of me thinking I was 'in love' but really I was dumb and naive.

        Now like I said I don't express my feelings or thoughts to anyone but I play with them when it comes to other people. If someone has offended me a sly way I'll find a way to hurt them back and harder.

        Like one time this girl that I really hated gave me a left handed compliment. It really irritated me but she never guessed as I laughed it off (as always) and talked to her as if everything was normal. Now, I knew she didn't like it when her best friend hung out with other people and she'd get jealous easily. I talked to her friend already but not very often. Yet, after that I started talking to the friend a lot and hung out with her etc. I noticed that the girl felt pissed as she'd say cruel things behind my back (which I later found out). Then one day both of them got into an argument. During the argument the best friend blurted out she was tired of feeling like a 'puppet' and 'sheltered' by the other girl. Now I know that was extremely bitchy of me and thats the meanest thing I done. But I genuinely enjoyed her company and I consider her a close friend to this day but she was always with the 'Queen Bitch' so I felt like she was unapproachable. Of course this wasn't easy and time consuming as I didn't put my mission into action for a while but in the end I got what I wanted - I hurt the other girl's feelings even worse.

        I hope this is what you wanted. I know you didn't want a life story lool but I had to share my experiences so you could understand what I was talking about better.

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        • Jiovanie
          12 years ago

          Wow, actually I enjoyed that story. Though that isn't as bad as the time I befriended that girl, just to get access to her bathroom. Then I put Nair in her shampoo. She won't mess with my friend now.

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  • countrybumkin
    12 years ago

    yes it happens all the time, that is the easiest way to pick up, i call it the wounded gazelle theory, lions never chase the fitest beast in the herd you look for the wounded one. sad i know but i was not blessed with a models good looks so this worked for me and i see it as doing each other a favour as long as each party knows it is what it is then nobody gets hurt

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I dont think thats possible vulnerble or not they did it knowing what was happening and accepted it.I dont think anybody could do that to me or maybe its just because im not the emotional type of person people usually say im heartless on emotional matters. >.>

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  • tomga1
    12 years ago

    Happens EVERY day. Because emotionally venerable girls are emotionally venerable because of low self esteem. Which makes them VERY easy to trick into fucking you. It's also sad because equally sad (douchebag) men take constant advantage. Stay away from alcohol kids.

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  • FourAMandstillgoin
    12 years ago

    Happens all the fime evedyday around the world.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    I think that there are times when people feel emotionally vulnerable and do a sympathy trade (where they listen to your problems and pretend to care) in exchange for sex. I'm assuming that this is what the op meant... If the op really was talking about highschool girls being mean to each other then... awkward.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well...I'm glad you enjoyed and whoaa lool....I might have to use that for future ideas.

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    • Jiovanie
      12 years ago

      I had good reason to. She slept with my friends boyfriend, just because she felt she could.

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