Is it possible my good male friend sees potential as more than a friend?

I'm trying to figure this out and would absolutely appreciate any input, thanks!

We've known each other for about 8 months and he made it clear from the start that he couldn't be in a relationship because he has emotional issues and he does, he has a mental health condition but has been going to therapy more and more throughout the year. Over the past few months, we've started spending a ton of time together more than ever before.

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So I'll just go ahead and list things he does to simplify it for reading and feel free to skim, you don't have to read it all!

- He goes out of his way to help me often. Example: he volunteered to drive an hour out of his way just to pick me up when I said he didn't need to

- He calls me amazing nearly every day, multiple times a day

-He checks up on me throughout the day, asks how I am, what I'm up to etc

-When my aunt died and he knew how close I was to her and had to fly to another state to attend her funeral, he told me he wanted to come with me and be there for me and he bought a ticket and went with me

-He's called me beautiful

-We sometimes spend an entire day together from breakfast to midnight

-He has said whoever ends up with me will be the luckiest person in the world

-When I'm sad, he will literally spend hours trying to cheer me up and will say your happiness is the most important thing in the world to me

-But then he will say things like "that's what friends are for" after I thank him for something and it makes me think he doesn't really have any strong feelings for me

Thing is, I've fallen in love with him and would love to date him

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Seems painfully obvious to me lol.

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  • dimwitted

    Stop wasting time. It's obvious you like each other.

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  • CDmale4fem

    It sounds like he is just being respectful,doesn't want to seem like he's putting any pressure on you. It seems like he is actually one of those "good" guys, and no BS about it. If he is treating you better than you have been treated in a long time. Enjoy it, best you can. If you don't enjoy it, tell him to hit he skids and find a different FWB. (I apologize for the length of rhis. I'm tired and falling asleep and couldn't bring myself to not finish reply.
    But now, good night.

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