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I am healthy, free, nice and not ugly at all but I can't get anyone in the sack.
My libido is so pent up that sometimes I feel excited when a lady brushes against me accidentally on the bus, or when I see a pretty girl pass by.
I don't wanna become a bitter lonely weirdo. Why can't I find someone who wants me? I feel inadequate and a failure emotionally.
Please I need advice.
I think you don't search in the right place. You might consider acquiring the very simple and natural skill of hitting on girls. Also, you might want to try different types of girls, until you find a one that suits you, rather than trying with the same type which seems not to work.
Your problem is definitely not your libido. That is actually a great quality and some women love it. Just need to find the right type of girl, and the greater the range of types is, the more likely you are to find a good one. For example, you can try dating girls of various ages, mindsets, even nationalities. You need to find one that wants what you already have. That makes a couple happy.
Don't feel so bad. You can fuck prostitutes. I have a rubber tube up my cock. I will never get laid.
and do some sports.. to get rid of all that excess energy and boost the self esteem
This. Intramural sports gives you a reason to be there, so you won't seem desperate, and will let you make connections. Eventually connections lead to friends and friends of friends, and all of a sudden you increased your circle of people who know you.
We would much rather date someone who is known, even by tangent, than a complete stranger in a bar.
Plus you get fit 😊
do you go out much? to events i mean, not just randomly leaving the house..
go to a lot of events where different kinds of people are going to be there:
for example.. go to a party at the bar
then go to games con...
join a book club (even if it was for a month or two)
join a group gym workout
you will surely meet someone who will be attracted to you (a lot of girls like loners or shy guys.. trust me im not kidding- bad boys are attractive to most girls YES that is true.. but very few girls can have a relationship with these so called "bad boys" .. trust me man.. i hanged with pickup artists for years)
Hookers hookers hookers. You've got to get over your qualms about hiring the first one, but after that it'll help you loads man. Not only will it work wonders for your libido, but when you're libido has been fulfilled and you don't "need" to pull," then you're much smoother and better at it. I know this might be a big thing to get over originally but I really think it'll do wonders for your sex life and dating in general.
just get those chemicla castration shot thingys but I think all it does is stop an erection or somethin. I hope they invent a shot one day that totally kills the sex drive hundred percent, and kills depression, psychopathy etc.. its all brain chemicals in the end. no brain no pain? wahaha.. btw sex ain't my prob its anxiety but i feel yah.. me drunk
there are products that you can buy / or can even download them for free ... or just watch some stuff on youtube (worked for me), to teach you how to talk to girls..
go search for RSD (real social dynamics) .. and 3SR (3 second rule).. these are the top people out there.. joice pickup artists communities .. if youre so desperate to get a girl.. but trust me . the moment you sleep with one or two. you will be way less interested in pickup for you will see how easy it is