Is it out of line to ask partner to get specific tattoos?

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Would it be out of line to ask your spouse to get certain specific tattoos?

The purpose is sexual attraction. He already has some tattoos and does want more. It's just a matter of me wanting very specific designs and placement on him. No, it's not my name or any sort of possessive baloney like that. It's nothing I drew either.

Out of line!! 28
It's fine to ask. 33
It's fine to ask and also to argue with him about it if he declines. 7
Don't ask, just tell him to do it OR ELSE. 1
If it's for sexual attraction then he should do it, period!! 6
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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    Like the time I asked my girlfriend to get those "reclining mudflap girls" on her butt?

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    • dirtybirdy
      11 years ago

      How did that work out for ya?

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      • NotStrangeBird
        11 years ago

        Not so well. I just wanted to make some good scenery better.

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        • dirtybirdy
          11 years ago

          Bahahaha. I did not get this notice til now!
          Maybe guys should tattoo their dicks to look like candy bars then.

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          • dirtybirdy
            11 years ago

            Oh dear dodo, that's a terrible idea. Just bloody awful!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I think it's out of line. I mean you can give him suggestions like "What do you think of these tattoos??" but don't throw it on him you know?

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    • OswaldCobblepot
      11 years ago

      I think it would be perfectly fine to approach it like "Hey! You should get these! I think they'd be super sexy!" as long as you didn't get all pissy if they didn't go for it.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    I think it's okay to give him suggestions based on what you like, but I would definitely interpret it as out of line to ask him to get certain tattoos. If he argues with you after you mention it then you should drop it; it's his body. I don't know how seriously he takes his tattoos though; all I'm basing what I say on is what I think is out of line to me. Maybe he take his tattoos less seriously than I would do, I don't know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    VERY.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    I think it's kind of out of line, and definitely possessive behavior. Why should he care what you want to see on him? It's his body, his money, his choice.

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    I think it's a little possessive, regardless of the actual tattoo. I won't call it out of line because there are ways to approach it without sounding too bad. But how would you feel if he asked you to get a specific tattoo? Or haircut. Or outfit...

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