Is it o.k my boyfriend of 9mth is often around my 5year old naked?

Well this is extremely different from the kind of household I grew up in, but I think that's probably a good thing. My parents were very conservative, I would get in trouble if I was ever lounging around in undies or something. Got yelled at for scratching my privates onces because they itched.

Now I have a lot of self confidence issues and while I'm doing better, I've been stuck with this idea my entire life that my body (particularly certain private areas) is disgusting, and I don't even have a logical explanation for it.

I often wonder what I would have turned out like had I grown up in a more openminded household.

He's not her father and he certainly should not be walking around half naked if front of her. If he had children, I'm sure he wouldn't want his ex's current man walking around his children like that. Not cool!!!

I remember my dad walking around naked as a kid. At some point he stopped but I dont remember how old I was. I am not traumatized by that.

I had a friend whose family was very open about being naked. When the youngest boy reached puberty he would yell at his mother and sisters for going topless. He would get so embarrassed. Now he is a well adjusted young man who is very respectful to women.

Nakedness is only bad if you make it a bad thing.

I have been with my current partner for a little over 12 months in that time my partner has known I'm a nudist. However due to having teenage kids she showed some negativeness with me being nude so wasn't able too. Until recently when her 15 year old son moved house to stay with nanny now we were left with just her13 year old daughter. So out of interest just sat back a little and see how things panned out I thought maybe she would worry, but to my amazement she became more relaxed and no longer told her daughter to get out the bathroom (she chats to me while I shower or bath) not a problem. So when i got out the bath I thought I would lay on bed nude to naturally dry off when daughter came in and she didn't seem bothered with my nudity also to my amazement nether was her mum wasn't asked to cover up. Anyway she went off in her room to watch tv! So thought I would ask my partner if it was ok to have a chat with our daughter about me possibly becoming a nudist full time in the home. She said if she is fine with it the yes ur free be nude. So went to chat to her clothed and explained that I was a nudist and just wanted to come chat and explain what naturism is, she asked asked a few questions and then last one came and went for it and asked her if it was ok for me to be nude to my surprise she said I'm fine with it really I seen u nude before anyway. So with this went bk to my and my partners bedroom took off all my cloths and went to go downstairs when me and her daughter met on the top of the stairs and just said "hope u ok with this, she smile and confirmed I'm fine with it" so with that appeared downstairs totally nude and partner said be careful little one is still up and about and said don't worry i chatted to her and explained about me being a nudist and she is fine with it. I said she knows I'm down here nude. So with that said she soon came To join us to watch a movie I'm still nude and my partner could see confirmation her daughter was ok with it. Have not really looked back or regretted it in any way shape or form. If anything I personally think its perfectly natural and normal to be naked. I was never naked until I reached a
Teen but since descovering naturism i have been doing it for 16 years now.

Being the only nudist in the familly of cause brings rules I'm not allowed to be nude while friends and other familly members are here and I'm never allowed to bust an erection, and this im totally happy and respectful of.

I don't think step-parents should run around naked in front of their step children.

I was raised in a house where a girl could see the mom and the boy could see the dad naked (e.g., when I was five I could take a bath with my mom, but If I ever showered with my dad he would ALWAYS wear swimming trunks). So even if your boyfriend was the dad, I don't think that's okay.

Him being a step-parent makes it really not kay. I am a step-mom to a little girl and wouldn't want her to see me naked, even though I know her mom well. One time we had to share a bathroom stall when she was 3 and I made her turn around when I went to the bathroom. The point is we are both girls and I don't think it's okay because I'm not her mom. IF I had a child of my own I would not want his or her step-parent being naked in front of them, ESPECIALLY IF THE PARENT WERE THE OPPOSITE SEX OF MY CHILD.

Tell him you aren't comfortable with it, and if he refuses to abide by your wishes for YOUR CHILD, red flags should pop up IMMEDIATELY. I hope at that point you would stop any form of contact.

Bj

No, there's something "odd" about this. Keep on the alert!

No, that's not okay.

Then again, it's apparently not the only problem with this story.

Its more fucked up that u are here asking if its fuckd up, I think u need counseling.

No, it isn't normal. I'd also be worried about the fact that statistically speaking the majority of pedophiles are black males. You shouldn't be dating a black person in the first place if you are white imo. Dude sounds like a pedo.

Normal for an open family with Dad and Mom
NOT normal for a 'Step-Dad'. Please stop it immediately or your sweet innocent little girl is going to have BIG issues.

I don't think it's ok. he's not her father. haven't you heard about stories of perfectly nice step father whho abused of their step children. you should not let your child think that seeing your boyfriend naked is normal. STOP IMMEDIATELY FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD PLEASE

That's fucked up! He's not your child's father so it doesn't matter what he thinks or has to say about it. Tell him to cover up. Do I have to remind you that Jerry Sandusky was a coach too?

If he is only showering or getting dressed with the door opened that would be fine .But if he was watching tv or eating dinner in the nude then might not be as acceptable .
I would also tell my child if she did not like it to shut the door on him

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He's not her dad not even her step dad he's a man that lives in ur home the only time he can be called a stepdad is when he puts a ring on it hunny and no its not right for this bf to be walking around ur little girl

Idk... When I read the title at first, it seemed kind of weird, but after reading the story the guy kinda makes a point, it might actually work out in her favor, just so long as it isn't excessive such as, hes lounging around watching TV naked and shit.

But would I myself do this? FUCK no!

Personally I think that, even though this is very different from the way my family raised me, it's a positive change. We are born naked and shouldn't be ashamed of any of our parts. Be that as it may, we live in a society where full frontal nudity is still considered a taboo. I think raising your kid SO differently from other kids could make her feel different or develop certain issues while growing up. Not to mention the fact that your bf is not even her biological father, which makes me question his motives. I would put an end to it and seriously think about the possibility of him molesting her behind my back if I were you:(

I wouldn't care if my 5 year old saw me naked. But seeing my black boyfriend naked is a different story...

Normal if it were you. I'd support this if you were the one teaching your daughter this. But since it's your boyfriend, I'm taking a neutral stance. But don't trust him about it.

I have been with my current partner for a little over 12 months in that time my partner has known I'm a nudist. However due to having teenage kids she showed some negativeness with me being nude so wasn't able too. Until recently when her 15 year old son moved house to stay with nanny now we were left with just her 13 year old daughter. So out of interest just sat back a little and see how things panned out I thought maybe she would worry, but to my amazement she became more relaxed and no longer told her daughter to get out the bathroom (she chats to me while I shower or bath) not a problem. So when i got out the bath I thought I would lay on bed nude to naturally dry off when daughter came in and she didn't seem bothered with my nudity also to my amazement nether was her mum wasn't asked to cover up. Anyway she went off in her room to watch tv! So thought I would ask my partner if it was ok to have a chat with our daughter about me possibly becoming a nudist full time in the home. She said if she is fine with it the yes ur free be nude. So went to chat to her clothed and explained that I was a nudist and just wanted to come chat and explain what naturism is, she asked asked a few questions and then last one came and went for it and asked her if it was ok for me to be nude to my surprise she said I'm fine with it really I seen u nude before anyway. So with this went bk to my and my partners bedroom took off all my cloths and went to go downstairs when me and her daughter met on the top of the stairs and just said "hope u ok with this, she smile and confirmed I'm fine with it" so with that appeared downstairs totally nude and partner said be careful little one is still up and about and said don't worry i chatted to her and explained about me being a nudist and she is fine with it. I said she knows I'm down here nude. So with that said she soon came To join us to watch a movie I'm still nude and my partner could see confirmation her daughter was ok with it. Have not really looked back or regretted it in any way shape or form. If anything I personally think its perfectly natural and normal to be naked. I was never naked until I reached a
Teen but since descovering naturism i have been doing it for 16 years now.

It's normal but u should tell her that boys her age are much smaller penis wise & that they come in all shapes & sizes & she shouldn't be dissapointed when she grows up if her bfs don't match his.